I am wildly attracted to cocks. Almost uncontrollable drooling and near dangerous levels of heart racing type of attraction.
Well, labia, clitoris and their cohorts contain what I desire so I am attracted to them and will perform whatever they desire to get it.
Although I like looking at both the and some of both sexes are better looking than others. But there is nothing more beautiful for me than admiring pussy. I love to grow a nice big hard erection admiring a beautiful pussy wondering how it would smell taste and feel parting those beautiful labia with my swollen glans.
There’s a mixed bag of bits out there and some are far better looking than others for sure, but I still look and appreciate them just the same. it’s like a car wreck, ya can’t help but have a peek as you pass by. Then some you have to linger to really appreciate their beauty. On both sides of the coin.
It's amazing the variety of likes and dislikes out there. But I have even found that variety in myself--over time. I used to love the vulva, but I did have a particular affection for those without any outer labia, what I like to call the innies. But sometime during the last couple of years I've developed an absolute revulsion to seeing the vulva, especially the outer and inner labia in porn pictures and videos, when girls spread their legs wide open, and even their pussies wide open (ugh!), but I'm still ok with just seeing the slit of the innies. So I guess I'm kind of unique among bisexual men. I assume I would be the same in real life, with a real woman, but I have no desire, since breaking up with my second girlfriend just before Covid hit, in ever having sex with a woman again. It's just men for me now. However, I can tolerate seeing labia in lesbian porn because I rejoice in their homosexuality. But since my first girlfriend broke up with me at 30 in 1992, I've had an uncontrollable desire for cock. I find it the most beautiful thing in the universe. I'm crazy about cock, and have sucked hundreds of them since then. I love everything about a circumcised cock, how it looks flaccid, especially how it looks fully erected, the head, the shaft, a guy's balls, a guy's asshole (my obsession since 2013), and everything about the cum shooting out of his cock. I'd say until 2013, it was really mostly about a guy's cock that I liked, and certainly in person not really the rest of his body, let alone his person. But since 2013 when I finally lost my gay virginity (as a top), I love everything about a guy, his entire body, and his person. I've even felt sexual attraction to guys fully clothed on the street, in everyday life. And I've even developed romantic crushes on a couple guys in the last couple years. But cock is still mostly where it starts for me. Until he turns around.
Hmm. Back when the NY Times wrote that bisexuality was real, I laughed my ass off. Then, shortly thereafter, the "Hearts, Not Parts" gang showed up to admonish any- and everyone who loved the parts but not the person they were attached to so much. They insisted that "the parts" shouldn't even be a concern when dealing with another person and... I pulled a muscle laughing over this one. The first thing this faction failed to understand that bisexuals do, in fact, consider the person they're about to have sex with but the parts are just as important since, um, if you're gonna have sex with that person, the parts are... a part of the deal. The Hearts, Not Parts gang implied that sex shouldn't ever be a part of considering and interacting with someone and... right out of those social norms that says you should never, ever have sex with anyone you don't care about or love. The other thing they failed to understand is that the parts were designed by nature to be attractive and in various sensorial ways - visual, touch, taste, scent. So, this "school of misthought" says that I, as a bisexual male, should not just be attracted to a man's cock and implies that I should be attracted to him first and foremost - and I still get a bad case of the giggles thinking about this because the reality of things says that while I can appreciate the other things about a guy, I. Want. His. Dick. I am very much about his parts and just like I'd be with a woman's parts, too. Hearts, Not Parts implies romance and that's all well and good... but when I want sex and only sex, parts just work and men and women have the parts I like to have biblical knowledge of. I like genitals. They taste and feel good and generally smell good and that's including pheromones and their subliminal scent. But until I get a feel for the person with the parts I wanna play with? Nothing's going to happen and that's just common sense... and something I felt that the Hearts, Not Parts gang didn't have a whole lot of and revealed their true lack of understanding what bisexuality is and how bisexuals can tend to behave since, for so many of us, there's more of an interest than just parts - there's the romantic aspect of bisexuality but (lmao) HNP just wanted to gloss over the sexual aspect and as if it didn't mean anything by itself. Which never changes the fact that it does mean something all by itself. "Tommy" is whoever he is as a person; he looks the way he's gonna look but what interests me is what's in his head... and definitely what's in his pants and especially if he's going to let me give him a blowjob he's not going to forget any time soon. "Susan," like "Tommy," is who she is as a person, looks the way she's going to look and just like with "Tommy," I know that beauty is only skin deep and as many a woman has proven to me over the decades but if she lets me at those parts? I'm going to town on them because girl parts taste and feel good. In either situation, romance isn't off the table... but I'm a guy and I like genitals even when conventional thinking says I shouldn't be thinking about playing with a woman's breasts or fondling a guy's balls. Where's the fun in not liking them?
I agree with you, K daddy: the Hearts, Not Parts people simply do not understand bisexual, or even homosexual, men. They are only imposing their own moral standards on the sexual activities of others. The vast majority of the male bi community, and a huge proportion of the gay community, are simply only interested in the cock. That makes sense, since the cock is the most beautiful thing in the universe in my opinion, and why it's actually worshipped in some contemporary cultures today, and in many cultures in the past.
I think all vulva and penises are unique and interesting beautiful in their own right. Some more than others but I think for me that’s mostly an hygiene issue. But that’s with most bodies and body parts.