Husband wants me to be with another man

So, several months ago my husband shocked and surprised me by approaching me out of nowhere saying that he realizes that he has never really satisfied me and that his own insecurities about his size and abilities in bed have left him unable to please me in other ways.

We’ve been to counseling, I’ve tried reassuring him over and over, even though there is truth to what he said but I would never tell him that.

It ultimately led him to asking me if I would be open to being with another man. Admittedly I was upset and a little angry at first, but as we discussed it over the course of a few months I realized that it was coming from a sincere and genuine place of love.

It took me a while but I am now considering this and do have a man in mind. I have been unable to figure out how to approach him but have an idea in mind and could really use some help and advice. Please message me for more details if you are inclined to, I sincerely hope to hear from people, I desperately need help

 

Delicate subject.
You need to find a way to talk about it, maybe hopefully someone in a group would talk about those arrangements. Then ask him what he thinks about it. Maybe if coming from an article which could generate conversation

Maybe try giving little signs to assess how he reacts.

 

Let you husband know..Set a date to meet with him and your husband if accepted. Open communication is key! Hope the best for you.
;-)

 

Usually a Nite club meeting a few drinks and dancing. Be open and talk things over. I know a few men had second thoughts after first time, but always came around after a while.

 

..If your husband wants you to be with another man you must be 100% all in. If not it will ruin the experience or wait for a guy you're willing
to experiment with. I'm all for people trying new things I wish the world was more open to it.

 

I can speak from a husband's perspective that enjoys my wife having other guys. Ours started out a little different than some but the end goal is the same. Our sex life was awesome, we just thought it would spice things up a bit and it did. We enjoyed it very much.

I think the most important thing is complete communication between you and your husband. We had been married close to 20 years when we first dipped our toes in the water. We were comfortable with each other and our communication was really good. Some guys are not into it but some we had really enjoyed it. Everyone is different. If your husband enjoys it and you enjoy it, that's all that really matters. I felt like it made our marriage stronger. This is only our experience so ultimately your experience may be completely different.

 

Count your blessings!
As others have commented, communicate with your husband. Does he genuinely suggest this because he feels he has not satisfied you? Does your husband satisfy you? Does your husband know and trust this gentleman that you have in mind?
I’ve had two different scenarios…..with ex-wife and current wife. we had great sex life’s , and adding another person was just icing on the cake….. so to speak. if your husband feels inadequate, adding another might not be such a good idea.
GOOD LUCK!

 

The original poster hasn't been around for well over a year. In other posts she admitted taking the plunge and having sex with another man. For her it was a fantastic experience and she has continued on. For her husband, he was glad she did this. It seems they, together, have found compersion in their lives. I wish them the best.

 

wife sharing is amazing love to see her going crazy with men love cleaning her and the guys cock too

 

I mentioned this to my wife she was turned on by the idea but left it in our fantasy world for a bit. After sometime she told me she’d fuck other guys for me. It was a bit overwhelming for me the first time but became a lot of fun and something neither of us regret

 

Communication, Communication, communication, can't stress that enough. Make sure you're both ready for this next step in your relationship, set up boundaries, rules, and expectations, be completely honest with each other, no holding back on thoughts and feelings, no surprises. When you've decided that you're ready, go slow don't rush into anything, have a plan and follow it.is he going to watch or are you flying solo? Get all the details worked out ahead of time to avoid hurt feelings and misunderstandings. Being as open as you possibly can making sure you're doing this for all the right reasons. Once you've worked out everything you can possibly think of, only then do you proceed and hopefully usher in a new exciting segment of your marriage, engaging in a truly gratifying and stimulating experience that you both enjoy immensely. Hoping the best for you both.let us know how it went, was it everything you were expecting or more, we're here to help you celebrate your successes so keep us updated, thank you.