I would say around 50. Not bad considering I'm not ancient and I've had 2 long-term relationships of 10 and 20 years where it was just monogamous (for better or worse, ha).
I lost count a long time ago. I can only estimate. I would hazard a guess of 250-300. Definitely not less than 200. I had a rather active period after my divorce.
I have been 57 guys …and about 10 women Women aspect faded in our late 20s..once I become more addicted to cocks and more intimate mm relationship. Here and there I would still like a Pusey Wife has been with close 30 guys after we opened up our marriage in our mid 20s…of those I have serviced about 20 of them for bi hook ups …..wife has active few long term relationships now with about 4 guys who she is all over …one of them is serious long term relationship..he is almost like her second husband. I accept and support that …. While young, I want to persue more opportunities of diverse men of mm …I don’t want to get to high number immediately I rather good quality of opportunities vs quickies and random hook ups. Which I don’t mind it depending on the situation…
I've had three; two when I was single and then my wife. No one since then. My wife has had two; first me, and then a close male friend who fucked her frequently for about half a year, after she and I had been married for about six years.
So, she has had as many and perhaps more than you have had. When most females tell a guy the number of partners she has had, that number can be doubled to get an accurate count. When my ex wife and I started going together, she was a beautiful 3 hole virgin (you have seen pictures of her). That didn't last long––thank goodness. After we got divorced 5+ years later, she decided she wanted to have more partners than I had had. She got to 20 and then met the guy she later married. That put an end to her conquests. Unfortunately for her future potential partners and especially for me, as we would still get together several times a year.
I've bumped my number up to 62 recently. Would love to catch and pass my SIL (Who I wouldn't fuck BTW) who claimed one day that she had been to bed with 91, she thought.
I had posted on this thread earlier, But decided to delete it and hit my memory banks While I still had a half of mind. it also got me thinking about my ex’s and current wife. Thus…… Current Mrs….. From what she has “confessed” I would say 6 Before we got married. Obviously 7 after we got together, and up to 8 after we had a few MFMs with the same friend. Except for her weekend with an online hook up, I know all of their names. I still have to see her ex husbands on occasion. Awkward. As for me, my first sexual activity was with my neighbor SB way back. Talking decades ago. Frequent SB for almost 2 years. Nothing more. Got that awkward stage of our lives, girls were not yet an option. Just a couple of horny geeky young guys. Then came women. My first was my virgin (Obviously, so was I) GF Freshman year of college. We took each other‘s virginity and were exclusive for about a year and a half. But then I transferred to an out-of-state University (one of only a few places that offered the degree that I wanted and needed) swore we would remain committed. She ended up breaking up with me..#1 she could not handle the separation. #2 she was banging her former boyfriend. Oh well! Met and basically fell in love with my college best friend my senior year…. She was a virgin, and said she had never had an orgasm at 21 yrs of age. WHAT? One night in her apartment we started making out, and one thing led to another. I was down to my boxes, and she was naked. What a body! Eventually worked my way downtown, and gave her her first orgasm. She seemed somewhat amazed that her body could react like that. So much so she said “AGAIN”. so I did. This continued for a couple of months until I had to move away for a new job/career. I was heartbroken. we kept in touch, and during one late night, phone call she confessed that if I had asked her, she wanted me to take her virginity. that’s what I get for being a nice respectful friend. other LTR‘s, FWB, a couple of one nighters later, my account is at 9. I wish it was more, but at 60+ years of age, I guess I should be thankful for my experiences.