Is your Wife part of your bi experiences

Is your wife involved with your experiences, in any way, shape or form. If it wasn't for my wifes encouragement and almost insistance, I probably would have been a sneaky cheating husband, which I wouldn't be happy doing. I always knew my wife was a "fag hag" and enjoyed working with our gay/bi business associates, so it was no real surprise when the topic of me doing it an old gay friend. Her Logic made sense. We could just suck each others cocks and get it over with.

 

What was the basis of her logic?

 

Yes, my wife was a participating partner for a number of years. Being I was the only man in her life that enjoyed sucking cock as much as she did was a real turn on for her. She loved watching me and my regular buddy sucking each other's cocks before joining in on the fun. It always led to her getting a prolonged fucking from the two of us as we did her together from each end. She and his wife never had a problem with the two of us sucking each other off from time to time as they both knew they were not wanting to suck us off as often as we were wanting to be sucked off so we had their blessings to do so as often as we liked.

 

I haven't had any experiences, but she is understanding of my curiosities on the topic. We even had deep conversations about it but she wouldn't want to actually be in the same room when it happens. Which i understand.

 

Not being able to have sex anymore because of an accident, she thought of options. We had limited experience when my wife was into photography. Our female neighbor moved and our close gay friend had seen me ejaculate once. She wasn't threatened because she was involved and it seemed like the logical choice for taking care of a couple of situations with no hastles.

 

Only my current wife of 25+ years knows about my regular SB that was going on 20+ years before I met her. Very early on, we had a confessional pillow talk session. Initially it was not so much about our sexual pasts, but more about fantasies. we both had the fantasy of MFMs (hot), and she was curious what it would be like to be with another woman (super hot!) Then she asked me if I thought about being with another guy… sometimes. Then she asked me if I had ever been with another guy. Oh sh*t! so I confessed to my neighbor SB. Her wide eyed look told me I should’ve kept my mouth shut. Then she started asking more questions about my SB! GULP! “How did it start?“ I told her the scenario. “How often?“ So I told her it was probably once a week for an extended period. “Why?” I told her we were just a couple of young horny very young males, Initially experimenting, but found out we liked it. Much better than just jerking off alone. “Did you f*ck each other?“ No, We never did, and I don’t think we ever considered it. That would be too “gay!” Eventually, the idea seemed to turn her on, to the point that we would watch MMF/gay porn together. “Would you do that?“ YES! She eventually fulfilled her fantasy of sex with another woman. Lucky her! I was out of town, Dammit! This other woman called back a few times wanting a repeat. My wife declined the invitation, saying that she had scratched that experience off of her bucket list. Of course I had 1 million questions, but she was very reserved in her responses. I don’t know if it was because she didn’t like it, or maybe she enjoyed it too much, that questioning her own sexuality.
Anyway, we eventually had a few MFMs with a close trusted and safe buddy. we all enjoyed each and every one of them. he knew what he was doing with her, and as much as she wanted to see me sucking him, he was extremely straight, and I did not want to ruin the vibe we had going. It may have freaked him out. Why take the chance?
so anyway, during this time in addition to MFMs, we started getting into pegging. Loved it. Then one night we were filling around watching a MMF video, and it was her that suggested we look for a bi guy for our own MMF! Sweet! We looked online for a while, but never came up with an acceptable candidate. Some pretty gross, so there went that.
While pegging, she would comment how she wanted to see me with the real flesh deal. No argument from me. NEVER HAPPENED! I don’t know how she would feel about it now, With age, menopause, and a physiological issue. If the opportunity ever arose for me, it would have to be on the down low. I also wonder how she would feel watching, seeing me really getting into it with a dude. Guess I will never know. The only sex I’ve had in the last few years is my right hand.
Give me a nice guy about my age (Or younger) That I could be buddies with and do things like tennis or golf (In a sexist marriage) And we could hang out and have some after sport fun.
I am dreaming!

 

My ex wife was into watching me with other men. Current wife knows and has seen pics and vids but says it does nothing for her

 

I'd love my wife to be into it I'd let her cuck me no.idea how to go.about it x

 

My bi experience has so far topped out at occasionally watching mmf and gay porn, showing her things I like or would like to try. She's ok with it as a fantasy and sometimes playfully picks on me a little about it. About 8 months ago she played some pop country song about gay lovers having an encounter and asked me if I liked it in a joking sort of way. So yeah, she is supportive to this point. She's quite aware that if she gave her blessing that I would seek out my first MM experience, preferably with her participating.

There was one night awhile back we were laying in bed intent on sex a short time later that I was getting myself in the mood looking at some very hot mmf action. I like to show her what I'm looking at from time to time and that night was one of those nights. I had showed her several hot scenes that really turned me on involving a male getting fucked in the ass while the female was riding his face and other similar (very hot) arrangements. Well, when we began to get it on, I went down on her and found her pussy to be the most swollen with arousal that I've ever experienced! I looked up at her and said "I guess maybe you like watching guys get busy huh?" Her reply was a smirking "maybe". To which I added that I would be happy to put a show like that on for her. She said maybe someday.

So yeah, while she still is not ready to open our bed to another bi guy or even a transgender person, she's been very OK with my hottest fantasies, even to the point that at times I believe she gets turned on by it.

But she's a shy personality. I've tried many times to tell me her deepest fantasies so I can look for porn on subjects she is into being that I have showed her mine. She's been resisting me on that. I think she has some very wild kinks inside her and she's a little scared to share them with me as much as I assure her that no matter what those kinks are I'm happy to play along with her on that subject.

Someday we may get there.

 

Yes wife and I sucked a few dicks together and she has watched and participated in some frotting.