How to choose a strapon for beginners? On the one hand, it should also bring pleasure to the woman (penetration, clit simulation) on the other hand, it should be comfortable enough (not slip out). I'm thinking about choosing between strapless one and both sided with straps. Maybe other recommendations? Please share your experience!
My wife bought one that came with three attachments. One was about 7" long but very soft that allowed her to swing it back and forth to feel what it's like to be a man as she told me to suck her cock. The other two attachments were firm for penetration (7" and 8") that were both enjoyable as she took to the role of fucking me like a man does. She'd fuck me on the edge of the bed while stroking my cock, once I shot my load on my stomach, she would scoop up my cum with her cock so I could suck it clean. I loved it when she'd exit the bathroom with it on and tell me to suck her cock to later tell me to bend over for a good fuck. Playing the role of the man stimulated her sexually as her nipples would get rock hard to play with while she fucked and stroked me.
Do you have a spycam in my house? I love when my gf comes out wearing a strapon in a dominant mood. She's even done the scooping the cum and made me lick her strapon clean.
Many years ago I ordered a "Terra Firma" harness from Good Vibrations for her to use. I don't know if that still exists, but it is a good one, with straps that keep it in place on her. It worked as as she was able her to fuck me pretty hard if she was so inclined.
Oh, and we purchased the dildo separately from a local sex toy boutique. That was a unique experience for us, but I'm sure not for the shop. Just a youngish heterosexual couple coming in to purchase a dildo for the wife to fuck the husband's ass.
Thanks for the answers, but they don't answer the question I'm interested in. I want to hear stories of experiences with strap-ons that also stimulate the woman at the same time! To better understand please google double sided strapon and strapless strapon