How did you discretely find a like minded parter?

For me it was just old fashioned luck. I knew him distantly and once he asked me to help him with some issues. After I was done, he asked me to sit down for a coffee. We chatted for maybe two hours and that was it. We agreed that I drop by next week and I did. So fast forward to the point where he made a move and I was pretty much into this with every soul of my body.

 

Craig List was the best for me. I hooked up with so many other married men for mutual oral sex. I had no idea that many of us married men were out there sucking cock on a regular basis. Craig List was the perfect place to connect too. I was hooking up with 3-5 different men on a weekly basis and loving every minute of it all. It was so exciting to return home to my wife having sucked three guys off and swallowed their loads.

 

Craigslist was the best. Many blowjobs were given by me via CL. My longtime suck buddy that I still have is a CL connection.

 

I had the same question as the starter of this topic. I live too remote to just walk in a bar or so. After one more or less coincidental online meeting that finally, after several years, ended in a hotel room, I longed for more, but it took another 6 years to find a date on silverdaddies. 2 months later I had that luck again. Now I just discovered hipforums. Maybe find the next one here.

 

Who knows! Anything is possible. Good luck to you.

 

I haven't but have been open to and would really love to! Someone I got to know and got real comfortable with and hopefully became more than friends! Have to be another married guy for sure!

 

Most of my encounters have been with other married men who I would never expect to be cock suckers. I'd been with a few men that said they were gay and had fun with them but must admit as I was hooking up more and more with men married to women and I preferred to be with those types of men. The comfort level is quickly established once we began sucking on each other's cocks. After an enjoyable encounter together, it was always exciting to receive an email two days later asking for a repeat performance. Over a 10-year period of time I'd say I hooked up with approx. 40 different men married to women wanting to enjoy some mutual cock sucking. I had no idea that this many men (in my area) were out enjoying what I enjoy doing with other men. It was a wonderful 10 years in my life.

 

Yes, indeed! I got married and found myself sucking cock with more married men than gay of single guys. It had puzzled me - why were these men, many of whom said that getting pussy from their wife wasn't a problem, looking specifically for other married men to do the deed with and one day, after sucking cock with a married neighbor, it hit me: The thing we all had in common was that we were married and, as such, we... understand what that means to us as men. Single guys were often too... flighty. More likely to bring way too much drama to the be... uh, table. Didn't mean that all single men - gay or otherwise - were dramatic flight risks but for me, two out of five single guys were too much of a bother to get naked with because it's not just about the sex - it's also about what could happen after the fact.

And while a lot of the married men I was encountering were of a mind to come back for more of the same, we had an understanding that made being a married man part of a brotherhood of sorts and one that also had a taste for dick. It wasn't until the first apps with geolocation came along that I was very damned surprised to see how many cock-loving married men were within five miles of my home and even where I worked... and some of those guys were within 700 feet or literally just up the street. One day I saw that there was a married guy looking for dick to suck and inside of 60 feet, which had me looking around because, bests guesstimate, that was inside my home! Found out that it was a new guy who had moved in next door with his wife and child and we'd often have a good time with each other because we understood something about the way we were that... pussy can't do anything about.