I've certainly succeeded in many of the items on my bucket list, including sucking another guy's cock (over the last 30 years I've had oral sex with hundreds of guys), rimming another guy's asshole (many times now), fucking another guy's ass (successfully only once so far, though I've attempted multiple times but had erectile issues), had public gay sex (sort of), being in gay threesomes and moresomes (many times now), and being in gay orgies (monthly during one wild year in Toronto, and they always had 30-50 men there, but I still had not started doing anal play with guys, so for me I only sucked and was sucked). So what's left on my bucket list: 1) Fall in love with a woman, get married, have children, have a great career, make lots of money, and own a house: At 63 now, having had no desire to ever have sex, let alone romance, with another woman again, and too old to realize all the rest, it ain't gonna happen! 2) A bisexual MMF: I no longer want that to happen, because, as indicated in #1, I no longer want to have sex with a woman. 3) A fully bisexual MMFF: I think the lesbian sex part of it would turn me on enough to have sex with the girls and not just the guy. The idea of homosexuality turns me on so much, so maybe seeing two girls together, who also do things to my body, may want me to fuck them, and not just the guy. 4) Fuck a guy bareback and cum inside his ass: I'm on PrEP now and know that will happen. Plus I'm done with condoms. 5) Fuck guys bareback with multiple guys present, including in a large, full blown all man gay bareback orgy: I would just love the freedom feeling of sucking, fucking, and getting fucked and sucked, with whomever I want, many partners, in a wild free sex night. 6) Finally lose my bottom virginity, having a guy fuck my ass--bareback and cum inside of me: I just know this will happen, as I've changed my online profiles, saying that I am now very much ready to finally give my ass to a special guy. 7) Be the guy in the middle of a gay spitroast: I suppose that could happen in #5 too. 8) Be a cumdump for a group of gay men: Since I'm on PrEP now, and get tested for all STDs every three months (which of course won't prevent my getting some STI, but at least it can be discovered quickly and treated), I hope this can happen. 9) Have a gay FWB (at least one) to get together regularly for sex and doing friendship things together, including--definitely including--camping and making love in a tent. 10) Maybe even falling in love with a guy and becoming boyfriends: I'm not sure about this one, though I'm certainly open to it, and have no qualms about being in love with another man (I have developed romantic crushes on a couple different guys so far, though unrequited). It's just, do I want the hassle of a long-term relationship with someone else? The 2 heterosexual long-term relationships I've had were disasters and very very painful. 11) Achieve Buddhist full enlightenment: I'm wishing for it and practising along the path every day. However, I'm sure my uncontrollable lust for men is getting in the way.
Wow! That is quite the list. #1 I have done. #7 I would put on my list, but that ain’t gonna happen.