I Think Of Taking It Up The Ass. Am I Gay?

Yes, you are gay!

 

no you are not gay... I have this fantasy as well.. when women have fingered my while giving me head it was amazing

 

No you are not gay but you are bi- curious . Me I’m bisexual and I love having a cock up my ass and it feels so damn awesome specially when he cum’s inside my ass . And I do love having sex with women as well.

 

I don’t think your gay I just think your are interested in something you have never done and you want to experiment, which IMO is normal.

 

Whether you are a very straight heterosexual, BI, or completely gay male... that doesn't change the fact for a lot us our assholes are very arousable. I have been married faithfully for almost 40 years. I had my male to male hookups when I was young before I got married. But I took my marriage vows very serious and have no desire to go out and find a cock to satisfy my anal arousals. My wife knows my past but also knows my faithfulness.

So.... we have toys. Cock rings with an anal plug that vibrates will work that prostate to no end. And on occasion when my meat isn't responding (I am 61 as of this writing) she knows that either that toy or her fingers right up my ass will do the trick. MAn oh man..... I need to go tell my wife it's time to go to bed. ;-)

 

You are not alone as many of us guys on this forum have had the very same thoughts and cravings. Having oral and anal sex with another man in my opinion does not make you "gay". Society has led the majority of society to think this way. I look at it as two people enjoying each other's company and providing each other what a woman is unable to provide which is orally and anally enjoying what a man's cock will provide. It's just sex between two individuals, just because both parties are the same sex does not make the individuals "gay". Being "gay" in my opinion is a lifestyle one chooses to live on a daily basis, to occasionally have sex with someone of the same sex does not qualify as being gay to me.

 

I don't think it makes you gay. You may be but just wanting it in the ass doesn't check all the boxes. I love using my Aneros to stimulate my prostate. It feels good to have something up there filling me up. I don't necesssarily want it to be a real cock but in the right moment, I would try it. Nor do I mind watching two guys doing it. Labels can be problematic.

 

No not if your still interested in women sexually, if so you are still bisexual

 

I agree....
IMO, gay would be wanting ROMANTIC love with a same sex partner. I have romantic love with my wife and absolutely NO DESIRE to have that with a man..... but I also have desires to pleasure and be pleasured by a man, i.e., sexual, physical pleasure.
It would be sexual, physical pleasure in addition to, not in place of, my wife.

 

I like it

 

I consider myself mostly (98.9%) heterosexual, but at one time in my life, several decades ago, I absolutely LOVED having a hard cock in my ass and having him pumping his cum in me. For a short while, during the 80s, I was a bottom loving cum slut getting my ass pumped full of hot cum every chance I got! And was married to a babe at the time, fucking her every night or so, as well! It's a miracle I never got HIV/AIDS...that or I'm immune to it!

 

You are lucky you didn’t now days you have to be careful with who you’re with.

 

Perhaps this world thinks too much about labels. If you want to do something, if something feels good that’s all that matters.

 

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This is just my humble opinion. You are not gay, and at most bi curious. as others have experienced, I went through my SB phase 40+ years ago (yeah, I am old). no one knows about it except me, my SB, and my current wife. I confessed it to her when we were first together…. pillow talk. At first she was somewhat shocked, but she grew to find it somewhat of a turn on. Let’s just say we both found anal a lot of fun….. for both of us. The ass is a highly neglected erogenous zone. I got her ass, and she got mine with a strap on. Nothing quite like seeing her enter the room wearing nothing but her c*ck. She took to the role swimmingly. Whether she had me suck it, or was f*cking me, she would say “I bet a real c*ck would be better”. Gawd I love that woman.
Yeah a real one would be different, but I am married and would never hook up with a dude. it ain’t worth it after being married all these years.

 

I agree, many of us here in this forum have experience an array of sexual things with other men and I am sure at times we wondered if we were gay but eventually accepted the fact that we were bisexual and enjoyed having sex with both men and women. Anal sex is not for everyone, but for those who had pleasurable anal experiences find out it is wonderfully erotic and sexually satisfying. My present wife was the first to enter my ass with fingers, toys, and eventually sporting a strap-on and took to the roll fantastically. It wasn't until I was in my 50's that she convinced my boyfriend at the time to fuck me in the ass with her present, it was the most amazing feeling I ever felt in my life.

 

QUOTE="LowHangers, post: 9560748, member: 302774"]I agree, many of us here in this forum have experience an array of sexual things with other men and I am sure at times we wondered if we were gay but eventually accepted the fact that we were bisexual and enjoyed having sex with both men and women. Anal sex is not for everyone, but for those who had pleasurable anal experiences find out it is wonderfully erotic and sexually satisfying. My present wife was the first to enter my ass with fingers, toys, and eventually sporting a strap-on and took to the roll fantastically. It wasn't until I was in my 50's that she convinced my boyfriend at the time to fuck me in the ass with her present, it was the most amazing feeling I ever felt in my life.[/QUOTE]

The original poster was only on here for a few months, and then nothing since Feb 2017. A ghost…or fraud.
You are lucky to have an understanding adventurous wife. Back in our hay day, my present wife became quite adventurous. I felt like I had found my sexual soulmate. We both really enjoyed anal and strap on sex. we had a few MFMs with a close, trusted friend, and then it was her that suggested looking for a bi guy for a MMF. COOL! we looked for a while, but it seemed like the guys that sounded good were not physically what we were looking for. so that idea was dropped. Disappointing to say the least. on top of her comments about a real cock feeling better than the strap on, what usually set me off was when she was dogging me, and she would say “ I am going to come in you”! That always did it. Nothing like stroking and coming with your butt full of HER cock.
I can’t imagine the feeling of a real cock shooting inside of me. That must feel amazing. Sadly, our once hot, adventurous sex Life has gone frigid. Aging sucks. Menopause and religion.