What to do when partner isnt into mutual masturbation?

Its been months and no budging no wanting discuss it doesnt even want to talk about it.

 

Well, I would go ahead and please myself.

 

So would I. Would be nice if we could do it together but...

 

You're gonna have to do it on your own, as underwhelming as that may seem. Hopefully, you'll find some way to spice it up and enhance the experience.

 

That sounds disappointing. I hope a little more time and patience leads to a change in attitude for the better.

 

:-(…guess you have to take it in your own hands ;-)

 

If someone wanted to masturbate with me I wouldnt need asking twice. I love it. I do it with a mate.

 

Oh DJ, you have us all wanting to help you
Out. I am sure you could find plenty of willing 2nds to enjoy a mutual round with you.

I know I for one am in a similar situation where the opportunity to share has been met with disinterest as of late… it’s a shame we can’t form a support group for those of us aching to share with no one there… I think it’s a sensible approach to manage our sex drive imbalances.

 

The OP is much too young for me to find her sexually arousing and wanting to help, but I do find her openness about the subject refreshing because there are so few women posting in this section.

 

Wow. Unbelievable. I can think of nothing more horny than wanking off in the company of others.

 

I'd suggest acquiring a selection of "power tools".

 

I don’t put it down, but putting my own way of thinking, maybe he prefers doing it to each other instead of both of you to your ownselves
Wondering …

 

Time to go Toy shopping

 

Perhaps if you start in front of him he'll join in and realize just how hot and erotic it is!

 

Oh yes indeed! Always follow orders!! ;-)

 

My exhusband tried it once with me in our ten years together. He wouldn’t do it again. But I used to wank in front of him all the time as I love doing it in front of people

 

You're not the first person to post something like this and I find this dilemma so bizarre. Do you mind saying what their reason is? To be crystal clear, I am not trying to find a hole in their logic nor am I trying to find a way you could pressure them into it. If they don't want to do it, that needs to be abided by. I've just never once known a couple personally who doesn't regularly masturbate together and I'm just madly curious why someone would feel sheepish about that with their own steady sexual-romantic partner if the issue isn't simply that they don't masturbate. Like for religious reasons or a hangup based in trauma. That's the only thing way it makes sense to me.

 

Yeah I mean do it with someone here. And by someone I mean me. Think of it like porn - no emotional connection but filling a dirty need

 

Maybe it's time for a new masturbation partner.

 

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