The Joy of Sucking Cock

If I could only do oral with men I am totally happy. As I get older I prefer oral

 

do you find that being in 69 brings out your competitive nature? Each time I've done it, in my head, I'm like I want to make him cum before I do!

 

Not really, I like to take my time and spend a good 30-40 minutes orally worshiping his cock and balls to ensure he provides me with a sizable load of cum to swallow.

 

I've been with guys where sucking each other off has been a bit of a competition, i.e., talking shit about "I can make you cum first!" and responses like, "Bring it on!" and now we're not only trying to make each other cum first, we're trying to out-suck each other, i.e., who can go deep, who can stay down there the longest, stuff like that. Like thepapasmuph said, I used to get all in my head about making him cum first and the refractory period kills him, and he never finishes me, or he makes me cum first and now I gotta dig down deep and ignore the refractory period so I can finish him.

Then I considered how guys just seem to be "naturally competitive;" I laughed about it when it crossed my mind - and a guy had bet me that he could make me cum first... and I made him cum in about two minutes and he was "salty" about losing the bet and... when did this get to be a competition? Is it a problem or something to be concerned about? I put it out of my head because when it comes to sucking dick, whatever's going to happen is going to happen - sooner, later, not at all, don't think about it and just stay in the moment. Don't "talk shit" - let your cocksucking do the talking and, besides, the whole purpose of this is to make each other cum... isn't it? Very much a part of that joy of sucking cock?

 

Sure generally the point is fun...and lots of it! But sometimes it's fun to think of ways to shake things up a bit and try something weird. Granted competitive 69 is not for everyone but I'm sure there is more than one person in the world that would be into it.

 

Lmao I would probably lose and cum pretty fast

 

I'd agree; otherwise, sucking cock would be boring... and we can't have that.

 

Dam I would love to 69 with a guy and he put me on the bottom that away when he blows his nut he could jam his cock in my throat and make me swallow all of it

 

Yes... I've been on the top and bottom of that situation! Many of the guys I 69'd with prefer the side-by-side method because it's more comfortable; I used to love being on top... until my knees got old.

 

Side-by-side is by far the more comfortable position and allows both guys the ability to take a break in order to prolong the enjoyment. There are several places I like to explore to provide the maximum enjoyment for both of us.

 

Have you ever noticed in movies and/or TV shows where someone is called a "cocksucker?" Naturally, it comes across in a derogatory way. "That fucking cocksucker!" "You mutha-fucking cocksucker!" I guess the characters uttering those insults have never actually experienced the joy of sucking cock. A quick google search to define "cocksucker" is as follows:
noun
One who performs an act of fellatio.
A mean or despicable person.
A worthless or despicable person; -- intended as disparaging and invariably offensive.

 

Love the side by side and 69

 

I’m the same way I wish I had one to suck on right now.

 

When I was younger, calling me a cocksucker, even when playing around, was enough for me to want to kick your ass. Indeed, I got into a lot of fights in junior high school behind someone calling me a cocksucker until, one day, this guy was pissed with me because I wouldn't let him cheat off of my work and he called me a cocksucker and I was about to go all Bruce Lee on his ass when a voice in my head asked, "Why are you getting upset because he called you a cocksucker? You are a cocksucker, aren't you?"

Yeah, I was. Oh, I still punched him in the face, but I never got fighting mad about being called a cocksucker again. Then, when someone called me that, I'd quip, "Are you offering?" and provided that I just ignored them. No sense in getting into a fight when someone correctly calls you a cocksucker, is it? I didn't think so...

 

Sure opened up a fun possibility, didn't it?

 

And unbelievably so. One of the earliest lessons in not lying to myself about who and what I was as a person. When it came to sex and sexuality, I was a muff diver and cock and scum sucker; a butt bandit and the butt bandit's "victim." I didn't have to admit these things to anyone else, but I had to admit them to myself; otherwise, it was going to be a problem. Girls liked me because I'd eat their pussies and there were a lot of guys who publicly hated me because I sucked dick like a faggot but privately, let's just say that I wasn't the only one sucking dick and slurping down cum like it was nectar. I'd already learned that I loved to suck cock; it made me happy to do it; it made me feel incredibly good and satisfied to put in the work necessary to get a guy to give up his cum.

If they didn't know that by calling me a cocksucker they were speaking to a truth about me, I was okay with that. Didn't make sense for me to get pissed off and fighting mad over a truth that their dumb asses thought was a demeaning slur. This guy sees me with a girl and he's pissed and wanting to fight because I not only stole his girl but I was fucking her and, um, well, he was right about the second part. He called me a cocksucker and I saw her flinch because she knew a fight was about to happen... then she looked at me strangely because I just smiled and said to him, "You didn't say that last night..."

The guy walks away muttering to himself and she asks me, "Um, did you blow him last night?"

"No, I didn't," I said. "These fools just need to learn a lesson about calling me a cocksucker."

"Let's go somewhere so you can eat my pussy," she said. "How come other guys don't like doing it?"

"I really don't know but everyone is running around saying that they wouldn't do it even with a gun in their face," I said.

I ate her pussy and fucked her; later that afternoon I gave her brother a blowjob and I got one from him... because sucking dick is a joy that only other cocksuckers can really understand.

 

I see it as a compliment, and so have other guys I've hooked up with. Saying that I am an amazing cocksucker is exactly the same thing to say to me to ensure you can have my mouth whenever you want.

 

Many friends throughout my life have at times called me a "cock sucker", simply because I was being an asshole, so I considered his remark as me being an asshole and expected it. When I just physically sucked a guy's cock for 30+ minutes and swallowed his load and he says I'm a great cock sucker, that is the compliment I was looking for and expected to hear.

 

Happy New Year, cocksuckers!