sleeping with your friend in your arms

Hey,

I have one question, I have slept 2 times with a girlfriend of mine. I think she is straight (and really hot, shes a big flirt!). But I Have gotten feelings for her, at that time i didn't realize that. well I slept with her in my arms, likie holding her, and i Loved it. Has anyone ever slept with your friend so close without any hankypanky??

 

There's a similar thread in this forum named "Sharing your bed". Check it out.

 

o well, thanx didnt see that on time

 

mmm, yeah. sometimes it's really nice to sleep with a straight friend like that...it's not even a sexual thing, just sensual and so wonderful.

my friends and I tend to be like that...especially Maribeth, who I really wonder about. I wrote about her in another thread (should I tell her? - that one)

 

I love to sleep like this with people! Its nice when you sleep with a straight friend that way,and they have the trust with you to allow this...

I duno,it just makes me feel good.

 

I allways sleep with my freinds like this, sometimes it can lead to other things though, even with girls who think they are straight. At the moment i am kind of in a situation like that, i have a straight freind who i love to bits, but recently after sleeping like this with her i have developed feelings for her, the problem is she is most definately straight but after spending time with some of my gay freinds she is starting to question her sexuallity becasue she thinks it is now the (for want of a better way to put it) "in thing". Hmm a bit complex really.

 

Its wonderful.....but somewhat devastating at times. To fall asleep with the one you love in your arms and wake up knowing you can never have them....My opinion anyway.

 

i am such a snuggle person...i love waking up and seeing someone looking back at me in a loving way...not a creepy "i was just about to slash your throat before you woke up" way

 

Well don't feel guilty that you told her that you like her because it won't pressure her to do anything shes not ready to. If you think shes questioning her sexuality maybe its not becuase its the "in thing" but because she genuinly doesnt know how she feels.

sarah x x x

 

its not a sexual feeling...its cuddling and loving as friends....you share a bed for comfort and celebration of your friendship thats all .....i did it and i had a few feelings fopr certain ones bc they knew i was gay and they still slept in the same bed as me but it was bc i was their friend and easy to fall asleep next too.....dont fret

 

I've slept in the same bed as my friend (we're both dudes) countless times, in boxers and everything. It's jokeable but it's not a big deal, but we've known eachother for ever.

 

Ya there is no better feeling really...........

You have someone you love....Be it good friends,etc...... Its nice to have them right next to you.....

Much better than being alone!!

 

i do that with my friend from time to time

 

I've desired deeply all my life a lover and I sleeping in each other's arms, but it's rarely happened. With my first girlfriend, whom I was with for 5 rollercoaster years (27-32), we slept that way only a few times, and after that she kept her cat between us. But she was also intimately quite a cold person. With my only other girlfriend, whom I was with for 3 rollercoaster years (54-57), the few times she ever had sex at my place she always left to go home to sleep, and the many times we had quite passionate sex at her place she always afterwards kicked me out of the bed and sent me home to sleep. WTF! I don't snore, but she did keep saying from the third month onwards that if I'm not already committed to marrying her, she doesn't want to get used to me sleeping in her bed, with in the end it not working out between us. The irony is that I would've felt closer and closer with her if we did sleep together in the same bed, and even in each other's arms, which may have led to marriage.

With the guys I've had sex with, only one, once, slept overnight, but I had no interest in sleeping in each other's arms (he was a bad lover and insisted on staying over, too lazy to drive home). My problem with guys is that they're all about sex, cumming and leaving. But I'm way more about passion, kissing, sex, cuddling, bed talk, etc. And I've yet to find a close friend with benefits or boyfriend to experience that deeper intimacy with, of really making love, that could lead to sleeping in each other's arms--my big fantasy. Maybe it's not even a practical thing that can work, but I can't know that until I try, and it's try with guys because ultimately they are whom I want to be with (not girls).

 

I would love having my best friend in my arms