More gay Than Bi?

Nothing at all against being gay but I could never see myself as being gay, I love women to much and much more than sexually. With men it's purely the sex and friendship.

 

You are what you want to be labels are only useful if they help you. Honestly every time I cum thinking about a guy I wonder if I’m gay then I will get hard later thinking about a woman and be like nope just like both

 

Super hot ..nothing wrong with being gay …

 

Is it really a sliding scale?, or is it gay at one end, heterosexual at the other end and everything in between is bisexual.

 

This is me. I'm attracted to women and jerk off to them all the time, but it has been a long time since I had sex with one. I'm not romantically gay, but certainly sexually gay. I don't feel like I am missing out on anything, and more than content having sex with men. There's about 0% chance of me ever bothering with perusing a woman sexually. In fact, I am enjoying myself more and more as time passes.

 

A lot of my early... customers came to me for sex because trying to get a girl to have sex with them made finding a needle in a haystack an easier thing to do. Guys would be frustrated, horny to the point where masturbation only served to piss them off and The Question: Have you ever done it with another boy? Which was usually followed by The Next Question: Do you want to do it with me? I learned to ask why they wanted to and, yeah, girls. Can't live with them, can't kill them but we'd do anything to get in between those legs and fill them up with our cum... but.

Guys were easy to get into bed and even today, guys are easier to have sex with than a woman is. At the least, guys can get together to jerk or suck each other off... or in whatever way that wants to work for them. We can fuck each other without the fear of pregnancy - top, bottom, versatile, whatever is going to get you laid and busting a nut and, as my protege once said when we talked about this, "I can take a woman out and spend more than $300 wining and dining her and I wouldn't even get the slimmest chance of seeing her naked. I can have sex with a man and if it costs me anything, it's the price of a six-pack of beer or a quick, pre-sex meal of tacos."

If anyone were to wonder why there are guys in the 4 to 5 range on the Kinsey scale, this is one of the many reasons why. When it comes to having sex, men are transactional - we will play "Let's Make A Deal" with each other until we can agree on what to do to each other then we get right to it. Women are conditional - you will only get the pussy once all of her conditions are met, exceeded, and satisfied and, yeah, sometimes, you can do this and still not get to have sex with her. I overheard a guy arguing with his lady over why he was letting dudes suck him off and he said, "Because you won't..." and she launched into a slew of reasons why she wouldn't and while she was rattling off reason after reason, he turned to look at me, saw that I was overhearing them, and shrugged and gave me a nod and... I just nodded in return.

She stormed off and he came over to talk to me about what I overheard and he said, "She didn't get it."

"They rarely do," I said - and invited him inside so we could suck each other off. Another guy told his wife/lady, "Guys will do what a woman could do... but won't!" and the woman went off on him but he was right. Any wonder why a guy would be more gay than bi?

 

So true, @KDaddy23. Women have so many conditions, and play so many games, with so much manipulation--their full-time job--and in the end have only rejected me, time after time after time. They drove me into the arms of men, time after time after time over a lifetime. At first it was just getting uncomplicated sex. But eventually I just realized that it's only sex with men that fulfils me at even deeper levels. It's men that I feel comfortable with, that I feel at home with, that I feel I am my true self with. Sure, women are still attractive and desirable. But it's only men that I want to have sex and love with now.

It's only been 5 years since I started calling myself gay, and it still excites me. The novelty hasn't worn off yet, so I still get this indescribable joy of identifying as a gay man. Whether it's true or more of a reaction against women and what they've done to me, I don't know. But I definitely want to try wearing this homosexual hat for a while, and maybe finally falling in love with another man, or at least having a close gay friend to have daily or weekly sex with on an ongoing basis, which I've yet to experience in my life.

 

Lol, it took me almost ten years before the novelty of having sex with guys wore off. Don't get me wrong: Sucking cock is still the thrill it's always been except now, at 70, I'm not of a mind to be running around trying to suck every cock in the county. Although I think I tried that decades ago...

 

That sounds like me. Im attracted to women but not men. I looked it up and after thinking i was bi for the longest time. But since I am not attracted to men I now know that I am hetero-flexible.

 

"Hetero-flexible" is the same as bisexual - just more PC. The mistake that almost everyone makes is assuming that you have to be attracted to men to fulfill the requirements of being bisexual - and you don't have to be. You can be attracted to the sex, which a lot of people think you shouldn't be but that's how it is for a lot of guys. Not likely to fall in love with a dude but if he pulls out his dick, well, now, things just got interesting! It has always pissed me off to see how social bullshit makes bi guys think that they're gay guys and something that was old, tired, and dead wrong when I first learned about it in 1964. You do not have to like guys like you do women. If you like the sex you can have with a man - and you still love giving women the high hard one, being in love with them, etc., then you're bisexual.

I would never tell someone that I was heteroflexible or homoflexible. I'm bisexual and I'm not attracted to men like I am to women... but I loves me some dick.

 

In short....yes. "0" is straight. "6" is gay. Everything in between is bisexual to varying degrees. I'm a dedicated "3"; being equally attracted to both.

 

that's a great, erotic summation of a helluva cumfeast.. but I can't really decide for you if your BI vs GAY pendulum is swinging away from MF to MM(MMMMM)

maybe if you and I spent a weekend at a lakeside mountain cabin in the Shasta Cascade region I'd be better able to assess your talents and tendencies and render my verdict?

 

I love both men and women the same and I am bisexual but there is times that I’m into men more because men know what they want and women tend to play with us guy’s. And some of the men I have had sex with ends up turning into a friendship and sometimes friends with benefits and I’m ok with that.