Where do you masturbate?

I don't! If I did I couldn't meet my wife's sexual needs.

 

I don't do it often, but in bed usually

 

That's interesting.
I had a perception that all your orgasms came from sex with another(s). Maybe someday, you might choose to use and abuse a cock as well as and, also, instead of your dildos. Maybe mine?!

However I'm curious about your methods. Please don't answer publicly unless you really want to but I'd love to know if the toys get you off or if fingers are needed as well.

Also, why do you not have a friend ( m or f) who can be on hand (so to speak), to render your toys redundant?

 

Well, I’m with real guys (plural) virtually every evening and on the weekends can be significantly large events….but, but, but, I have almost never had overnight guests at my flat! I wake up alone and often fairly early, usually feeling horny! So I indulge myself in the morning and maybe even during the workday, if I’m working remotely (for my day job). I have orgasmed with just fingers whilst in conversation with guys from this very forum. Usually online here in the hours between 0500 and 0800, so around midnight in eastern North America.

Have to check on the models…generally dildos that look a little lifelike but on the large size…a friend of mine brought some back from the U.S. some were Doc Johnson brand.

 

Thank you Jenna. I appreciate such openness and the discussion of intimate subjects with there being no sense of taboo.

I seldom meet women, nowadays, where we are both open to discussion about any subject but it's lovely when I do or, rather, it was lovely when I did. Its even better when that extends to mutual giving (of pleasure), rather than mutual using of each others body.

I find it refreshing to have that openness/intimacy, without it being an in-love thing. An otherwise platonic friendship but one that includes the helping out of each other with our needs, whenever one of us needs it. Having each other's back, metaphorically, and literally.

Something tells me that with you, it would be on a whole other level