Do you check things out together or do you buy the toys? Are they for your wifes pleasure or do you share with each other. On line anonymous purchases made it a lot easier then the old days. My wife looked at the sex toy section of a website , with me and picked out whatever she wanted. Last purchase was a toy for her to use on me, which became her new fav.
We would go to the adult stores together, then online. For the most part we picked out toys to use on the other half
I buy my sex toys online. Mostly on Amazon. But I have bought lube in-person at pharmacies for myself and a girlfriend if we started to fool around and realized we didn't have any. And I don't think either of us were embarrassed to do it. I've just always been the one to buy it because I don't care and I guess I think it's gallant to get it for us. I don't know. I've never thought about the idea of "who's gonna buy it?" as a convo I or my partners would need to have. I have quite purposely been the one to go into pharmacies and buy tampons whenever a GF needs them suddenly, because it scratches my ego to show off that I'm a masculine-reading partner who doesn't think anything of beeing seen buying tampons for a GF in need.
My fb is divorced and bi and 62 with a hot toned muscled body. She has been with countless men and women and we have known each other for about 20 years although intimate for about 5 years. I say this because our sex life is quite intense including threesomes and toys lol. She has three duffel bags of all kinds of toys, dildos, dom equipment etc. I have bought her various toys which we incorporate into our menu of fun which enhances her orgasms beyond expectations. She has said and I have posted about this before that while her female partners enjoy the various toys her male partners tend to be intimidated by her and especially when she would try to show them her pleasure bags.
