How important is the kiss?

Wow, I totally agree with this. Kissing is a must for me, especially as described when it happens between two masculine gay or bi men. And it can lead to so much more. The first time I was ever kissed by a man it was so passionate, and his tongue was so deep in my mouth that I thought I was going to melt away. I became hooked at that point.

 

My fantasies of being with a man now always start with us in long, deep, passionate kiss. It turns me on so much that it gets me hard before I even start imaging his cock in my mouth. Our bodies pressed tight against each other, our cocks getting hard, hands up and down his back and ass, our tongues going crazy inside each other's mouths.

 

When it comes to women, I love it. I never imagined kissing a guy. For me it's mostly sexual. Let's get it on. Now, I've seen porn where they are passionately kissing before getting to it, and I will admit it does look appealing but I could never get arose by it. I'm sure, as I've I heard before, it's different when you're in the moment. So no, it's not a deal breaker.

 

Yes, that is so hot! It's not just fantasy for me: I require it now with the guys I get together with. Sure, sometimes the guy is not into kissing; but I'm no longer into those guys and kind of screen them out beforehand. Passionate kissing another guy is, like, half the sex I enjoy with him now. For the longest time, when I was just having oral sex, I would fantasize about kissing but never want to do it when I was naked with a real guy. But once I started having anal sex with men (which all but nullified my internalized homophobia ironically), I've become so into his entire body, and person, that I need very sensual body touch and passionate kissing. I guess it's become all about making love with another guy now, just like I've done with women. Of course, I'm a romantic to start with--all my life a romantic when it comes to women. So it totally makes sense that I would become a romantic with men as well.

Not all guys are great kisses, unlike most women I think, but with some patience and training, I can turn a guy into a fabulous kisser. It's like making love to each other's mouths using our tongues and lips. I want my male lovers to be very passionate nowadays, and not just robotic cocksuckers and fuckers.