Do your partners like or dislike mutual masturbation?

I wouldn’t say my wife dislikes it but it’s not like she as willing as I am. I was edging myself silly last night in bed while she was out watching tv.

 

Such a shame

 

Both my wife and I enjoy it. She’ll often get herself off and then we’ll have sex, because that’s what we’re both really looking to enjoy. But I do love watching her masturbate.

 

That's not good.

 

So very sad for most men it’s a huge turn on

 

I love it. But currently in a newer relationship and he just wants to get right to it.

 

:-(

 

Something I can do anytime so it’s kind of a waste of time. Rather we do it to each other
If and when I am with someone

 

Wife gets bored. Sometimes she'll talk about something extra kinky to get me over the edge.

 

Perhaps take on the role of patient teacher and initiate him by degrees.

 

Sounds like you need to train him.

 

God Yes! Love and Sex can be expressed and enjoyed in many ways and variety keeps things alive and interesting. We love sex in many positions, Sometimes I masturbate her until she comes and sometimes she does me. Sometimes we Masturbate ourselves at the same time, sometimes we masturbate each other at the same time, she masturbates while I watch or I masturbate while she watches. To be exciting and fulfilling sex must be loving and generous.

 

I've never dated anyone who didn't masturbate with me. Two women seemed not as into the mutual aspect of it as most. They did it with me. They enjoyed it. But they were very much in their own world while they did it. Didn't make much eye contact or look at my junk or position themselves to let me see them playing with themselves either. But they were just weirdos and very closed up when it came to sex until they weren't and then would get upset we didn't try crazier things. Like I said, they were weird.

Other than those two, every woman I've slept with, mutual masturbation has always been a very standard part of foreplay/sex/sexy-fun.