My wife and I are both smokers. I don't think we would have met if she was a non-smoker. Before we got married, we discussed a number of things, and our smoking was one of them. We both believe that relationships between smokers and non-smokers is complicated at best. We agreed that we would both be smokers for the rest of our lives, unless one of us has to quit for health reasons. In which case, we would both quit. Albeit, I would probably need professional help.
I am not a lesbian but I am a bisexual male. Mostly with men nowadays But the lines seem to be blurry on the term man lately because estrogen has completely crushed my testosterone and TRT therapy and estrogen blockers don’t help where my breasts and nipples have grown to enormous size. But nonetheless back to the smoking. I personally like smoking especially 100 or 120 size and won’t be with anyone unless they enjoy the same joys of smoking.