I found sitting on the edge of the bed while she kneels on the floor worked very well. If my legs get weak for a moment, no worries. She is in total control. That brings me to one of those moments when my fwb wanted to give me a blowjob, so after giving her a pillow for her knees she was doing what she loved doing. Like I said she was in control but she had a submissive side, she loved me telling her what to do. The only thing I should have tried was to fuck her mouth but I was always happy to let her do her thing. If I moaned or throbbed it turned her on, she made involuntary little noises and her breathing got louder and faster. I was paying close attention to the sensations so I remember clearly the moment I moaned louder when she made my penis tingle and throb. She shuddered and and made those sounds, she had intended to take me to the end but she stopped and said she was so wet and throbbing like crazy (she didn’t know it was an orgasm at the time, funny). She couldn’t take it anymore and needed to relieve that crazy sensation. I gave her oral and then fucked her, followed by more oral and fingering, telling her she was actually having an orgasm while blowing me.
As the giver I like it when I'm laying down with my head slightly hanging off the bed and he's standing over me.
Curious as to why. Deeper in your mouth? Or he can see your body while he's getting sucked? My wife used to hate this but she loved it when I was on my knees on the floor near the bed and she would hang her hips over the edge and settle on my tongue. She said she like it being spread and naked and getting oral BUT she didn't like it in reverse. Interesting...
I thought this was a great idea once.....all the angles lined up ok...perfect height....she was on board....however it wasn't great - her tongue was on the wrong side of me. So, it was hey, let's go back to the usual... I suppose it may have been more fun if it was deep throat, but that just doesn't fit here.
I prefer either the guy to sit in a chair and I get on my knees with a pillow under them, or I sit in the chair and the guy stand up. When I was younger, I didn't care, but I nowadays I have a new appreciation for being in comfortable positions.