Would you be creeped out if someone told you they wanted too spread there dads ashes on your proper?

Sounds like they go too Florida for the winter and come back up in the summer time to stay but then my aunt said they might come back up too the camp one last time too close up for the winter

 

We won’t go up there during hunting season that just be stupid don’t wanna get shot

 

Update my sister Sarah is coming up October 17th we plan on driving up there and see if we can make it happened my sister Sarah is admit on honoring our dads last wishes hope we don’t get caught on cameras if the do have trail came up

 

Best wishes to you and your sister

 

If I owned the land and knew your situation, it would not bother me in the slightest. Your dad spent happy times there, he was not a serial killer.
I assume that the area is fairly open land, it is not as if you would be spreading them a few feet from an occupied house.

 

Not at all..

 

Update this weekend we plan on trying it my aunt thinks it’s a terrible idea they are obviously not cool with us doing it they got our note and number and never called us

 

My aunt says I should sit it one out and not go with my sisters

 

I just don’t wanna go to jail or have something worse happen

 

Sarah is admint on honoring our dads last wishes

 

Walk in quick do it and a leave and not fuck around

 

Is something wrong with the forum? It seems to have deleted all your full-stops (periods).
The term is trespassing but, in the UK at least, that's no biggy. Trespassing is a civil matter (outside scope of police) and being on someone's land isn't trespass unless and until they ask you to leave and you actually don't.

We're it me, I'd write to them (yep, the old-fashioned way, on paper with pen) and include my Dad's address and phone number. I'd set out the background to your request - former ownership and your Dad's death and his dying request, that he be scattered there. I'd also include your desire to fulfill his dying wish in case it may help get him a place in heaven, and you want to make sure you do whatever you can to help get him there. That may pull at their supposedly Christian belief and show you are equally into God which may help get their consent.

Failing that, I find a boundary fence away from their view; I'd gather with family etc at the fence; I'd jump over the fence to scatter the ashes (with family watching from outside the boundary) and then I'd jump back out, before being seen or before they get close enough to ensure confrontation.

It only took about 2 minutes to scatter my dad's ashes. If you're hoping several of the family can each scatter some if his ashes, that may take longer and make it more likely they could confront you before finishing.

That's my UK solution. I'm not knowledgeable on this subject to be sure it's correct for any other country.

Hth

 

Update we did the ashes walked in and put my dad on the lake like he wanted and took some videos and pics the gate was locked no one was at the camp

 

Seeing that commercial airlines routinely dump jet fuel when they need to -- what damage could some sterile ashes do?
Ashes to Ashes, Lust in the Dust.

 

Wonderful, I am glad you were able to do that