any transient consensual sex with another guy (or lady) should be a mutually pleasurable activity of satisfactory duration. now.. if the other guy put Super Glue on his lips or cock, that might become a relationship requiring intervention..
I began fantasizing about men only about 15 or so years ago. I’m 59 now. I pretty much only watch gay and cuckold porn. I’ve been with 20 men since. I love pleasing men sexually I don’t find men attractive. Unless they are nude with a hard cock. About 3 years ago I convinced my my wife to try being a hotwife. She does it now regularly. If I were single again I would absolutely be exclusive to men.
As I get older I don't want just a hook up but someone regular, maybe to live with. Someone like my two teenage bfs, who I can suck and pleasure or take them in my ass when ever they are horny and want to cum. To fulfill their every sexual want where I can avoid the drama and problems fussy brings, and be naked and getting lots of cock & cum. When younger was more into you do/ make me then I'll do/make you. Now it's more wanting to be the bottom, F, sub and take cock & cum for the other's pleasure . Others?
I have definitely gotten more curious as I have gotten older .Especially living in a dead bedroom home. I am just not sure how I would react if the situation ever arose.
watch some gay porn read gay erotica if you don't get nauseated (and especially if you get hard/horny), you'll do alright if/when there's an opportunity to experiment.. I used to enjoy MM (MMM+) a lot then marriage and strictly straight.. but.. urges strengthen, resistance weakens..
That is the problem when you have a partner even if you have no sex. What to do when your resistance weakens? Where to find healthy discrete likeminded individuals. I am sure it would be fun to experiment.
Not gay, but more bisexual? I have gone up by 0.5 to 1.0 higher on the Kinsey scale. Told a few close friends 3 years ago. And a therapist, and my doctor. Also went to a bi group meeting. Seeking out bi friends who know who I am. This was unthinkable to me ten years ago! I'm getting tired of the paranoid secrecy. Getting older makes me care less abd less what ithers think! LoL!
As we age and our partners desires diminish it can allow us to open the door to other opportunities and experiences. The need for any type of intimacy or sexual contact with another man becomes less taboo and for those of us that had taken the plunge have come to realize that we've just found and experienced something very enjoyable that many years ago would have never thought of doing. It can actually open a door within us that had been closed for decades. It's now acceptable for us to walk through that door without a thought.