Are Older Seniors Asked To Help Provide Sex To Widow Or Widowers?

Since I am the OP of this thread. Here’s another way of looking at sex for our senior population. There are so many seniors who for whatever reason have lost their spouse or the spouse can’t have sex any longer. They fight depression and sadly their quality of life is diminished. That said, I think sex should be discussed with aged openly. Health care professionals should incorporate this into wellness check up’s.
My wife and I will be visiting our elderly friend next month and he is already looking forward to spending
time with my wife. She loves to let him caress and touch her naked body. He does oral on her and she gives him a bj. He is unable to penetrate her due to severe ED. But he does get to watch her and I fuck.
This is great for his mental health and makes him feel like a man again. We are happy to do this for him.
If you have an old friend( Man or Woman), I’m sure they would appreciate some intimate attention.

 

Nice service!!

 

We view it as friends helping a friend. It’s just playful sex and should not be taboo. Sex is mentally healthy. If my wife had a female friend that needed my attention she would approve. It’s human nature to interact and connect with one another.

 

i just read this thread, so nice of both of you guys. You for sharing your wife and your wife willing to play with your friend.

While reading the thread I was going to ask if this was still going on 3 years later, and damn if it isn’t. Well done, tipping my hat to the both of you.

 

Are they that ugly?

 

No not ugly, but not sexually appealing.

 

I have never been asked…but I’m here to help.

 

My fb is 62 bi and hot. For years she has been friends with a gentleman who is now 86. They are both in the same profession which is why they share a lot in common. He is a widower but has a girlfriend but because of medical issues they are not intimate. Anyway for sometime he has been asking to “lick” my fb. She has had countless partners as have i and I say this because we know each others past and sex with us is fantastic. I told her that she should let him lick her and she toys with the idea. She has another guy more our age also wants to perform oral. I find this a major turn on . I have many partners and besides my wife she is the best sexual partner and I think she would knock both their socks off and who knows they might be great at the task. Personally I find it a turn on even if she blew them or let them fuck her.

 

Damn dude

 

I am the OP and that’s what I’m talking about senior men need to feel like a man sometimes.And senior women need to feel like a real woman. It’s only natural and good for their mental health.
Our friend is looking forward to our visit soon. As I have said before… It’s just friends help in a friend, that’s all.

 

I am doing....

 

when I was married to my ex, she had no inhibitions about letting me watch her with her dildo or vibrator. Hell at the time, I didn’t even know she owned any! One night early in our cohabitating days, I returned home after being gone for a couple of days and was surprised to find her laying on our bed, intently, working her dildo in herself. OMG…. I just stood in the doorway, getting incredibly hard, and watching. Eventually, our eyes locked, and she came like crazy! of course I could not get out of my clothes fast enough and I replaced the dildo. it did not take me long at all to fill her. One of the things I liked about her was her exhibitionist kink.
You might just need to take the lead with your wife,and purchase the dildo yourself. I had to do that with my current wife. Found out early in our relationship that she had NEVER masturbated, or had never seen a dildo, etc. so I made it my mission to check off that dildo item. so one night we are getting worked up, and I pulled out the dildo from behind one of our pillows, She was like WHAT? She got over her surprise in a hurry, especially after she came, and I sucked all of her juices off of it. I think I understood why, because during subsequent sex, she would have her first orgasm, and then push me off and lick and suck all of her wetness off of me, and then we would continue. One of her comments was “ I sure taste good on you!”
Good luck man!