Girls, finish your guys off!

Probably talking to an understanding audience here, but I’m venting anyway!

I often read online, hear from female acquaintances and from many a guy I’ve fucked, that there just seems to be too much “withholding” near the point of ejaculation (for the guy)! I get a lot of guys who come to me because they have a “no sex” relationship, but I also get guys who have regular sex, but something is left unfulfilled.

So what do I hear…”Giving my husband a blowjob and he got pissed because I made him pull out” or “my girlfriend makes me pull out every time just before I cum”…do we all realize that often ruins the moment?

When I’m in a position where I can see a guys face when he’s fucking me, those last few seconds are so crucial to his orgasm! The increase in tempo, the eyes glazing over, muscles and facial expressions tightening up and those last few deep hard thrusts, firmly planting to the hilt! I also see and hear the same when doing oral. For me, I’m usually deep throating, so it’s basically like fucking, but even if the standard blowjob (which most guys really like), why make the guy pull out?

So why girls, why do you not want to finish the job?

1) do you dislike cum? Think it’s dirty, smelly or just messy?
2) worried about getting pregnant…getting STDs?
3) feeling guilty at the last moment…societal hang ups, that obviously the guys don’t have?
4) lose interest?
5) Jealous because she isn’t close to orgasm?

Would be interested to see what everyone thinks and why.

 

Take a look at a thread I posted, it's
"Guys, does your wife/girlfriend REALLY like giving you a bj,....or is she just going through the motions ???"......
The answers kind of surprised me....

 

Greetings from Hungary! Yes Jenna, why do you think me and my friends search out girls like you!!!

 

When you already know that she's not going to finish you off when giving you head ruins the whole thing before clothes come off. I can literally count on one hand the number of times my first wife finished me off - and one of those times was an, "Oops, didn't mean to do that..." but she was very good at sucking me and just when I'd get to the moment where I'd feel the pressure starting to build, she'd stop and into the pussy I went. Her reason for this, which I found to be plausible, was that if she sucked me off, that meant she wasn't going to get fucked unless or until I could get it up again and by that time, she'd rather clean the bathroom.

Some females have said that, yes, love sucking your dick - but it takes too long for you guys to cum, aching jaws and other body parts; many claims of it tasting and/or feeling nasty in their mouth. An overall insistence that the cum belongs in their pussy, not their mouth and one lady told me that she'd rather be fucked in the ass before taking cum in her mouth. There was one lady I was with and we had great sex together... but she didn't believe in oral sex and for 'religious reasons' and I reasoned that this was in line with the Catholic Church's position that oral sex is a form of contraception - and she did love having me cumming inside of her.

Now, here's the disconnect. I do not think that there's a female who is sexually active who doesn't know that if you give a guy a blowjob, it's an expectation that you finish it and that means letting him cum, preferably in your mouth - and even if you spit it out - but if you get him to the ledge and finish him with your hand, okay, that's at least acceptable for some guys. If you don't do it, can't do it, don't believe in doing it, you can almost bet the house that someone else will be sucking him off... and it might be a guy like me or any one of the untold number of cocksucking males who live by the rule, "If you're going to give a blowjob, finish it!" and one of the reasons why a lot of guys - single, married, doesn't matter - seek out guys like me because they've heard that there are guys who will suck your soul right out of your body, give you a second to catch your breath, then go right back to sucking dick and... what guy wouldn't want this and more so when they're with a woman who won't finish the job they started?

One woman said that she would never suck me off and when I asked why she asked, "What do I get out of it?" and... I thought she had a point but, apparently, the satisfaction of pleasing the guy wasn't good enough for her or a lot of other women who've said the same thing. There are a lot of men who have been conditioned by women to not cum from having their dick sucked and I've run into these guys who either proudly or sadly say that they can't cum from a blowjob and like I told one guy, "That's because you've never gotten a blowjob from someone whose whole reason for doing it is to get you to cum."

It didn't take me very long before he flooded my mouth with cum... because I was doing everything I knew how to do to entice him to give it up. Yes, there are women who are just as dedicated; if they're going to give you a blowjob, they're damned well going to finish it... but finding them is rare, isn't it?

 

if i'm in a relationship, if i'm loyal to you, if i'm submitting to you then.. like.. cum wherever you want

if this is a one night thing i'd still swallow but def wouldn't let them cum inside of me

 

But for a one night thing, if you are letting them bareback you, why not let them cum inside you?

 

That's what I wanted to know, too. If you're barebacking me, I'd be expecting you to cum inside of me. But when topping, if they say not to cum inside of them, then you just don't. One night thing or otherwise.

 

And if you’re worried about STDs at a one nighter, swallowing is just as risky as cumming in the pussy?

 

According to a lot of medical stuff, swallowing is less risky than cumming in the pussy although the moment a dick goes in either place, any risks have taken and assumed. Like girls who demanded us guys have a solid pull-out game. Get inside of her bare and not even thinking about our seminal fluid - pre-cum - can have sperm in it; it gets to feeling too good, pull out, squirt it all over her and put it right back in her and not even thinking about the fact that there's still semen literally in the pipeline and then both people are wondering how she got pregnant. You fuck a woman raw, you take any or all chances or risks that goes along with this.

You suck a dick raw, eh, if your mouth is healthy, there's little chance of catching something nasty in your mouth but if you have gum disease, cuts, scrapes, abrasions, and even cavities, there's greater risk here because that something nasty can have access to your blood and... yeah, not fun from what I've heard from those unlucky souls who actually caught something nasty in their mouth.

Saliva contains enzymes designed to start breaking down stuff we put in our mouth and "kills" a lot of stuff at this point - and what our saliva doesn't destroy, the hydrochloric acid in our stomach most certainly will.

 

You seem very grounded in reality/truth. When a man is fucking you or you’re blowing him, he wants to pump his whole load into you. It’s instinctual and gives him complete sexual satisfaction.

 

I met a married woman a few times who had a pass from her husband.
She loved sex, but wow she really really loved giving blowjobs. She mentioned she had met many men who liked sex with her because of her blowjobs, their wives didn’t give them much or little sex. She said women should continue to please their men AFTER marriage, the rate of cheating and divorce would be a lot lower.
I was one of them and I stopped feeling bad after it after the first couple of weeks.

 

I totally agree with the “complete sexual satisfaction” and I think on an instinctive level as a women, knowing that I’m accepting the full load helps me to get complete satisfaction as well!

 

For me, the most important thing is to feel that she is enjoying it. I know that my wife doesn't enjoy giving blowjobs, so I prefer that she doesn't do it.

 

I understand. My wife can cum many times but she’s not fully satisfied until she receives cum inside her.

This thing with pulling out or even condoms seems like Brave New World-ish programming to us. Even when we play with others, we only play bare with other couples who also only want it inside.