Going to put this in my blog…several of you have asked about pain becoming pleasure. As some of you have likely read in my blog and in prior posts, I am a bit extreme with regards to the number of sexual partners I have had and also a bit extreme with the intensity of sex that I desire. If you follow me, you can infer that I often will experience pain in my encounters and occasionally an injury. I do find that my most intense orgasms are right as I’m getting vigorous deep and/or wide penetrations that are getting painful. Then when the orgasm or that orgasmic trance/euphoria begins, the pain simply vanishes. Before I wrote about this, I spoke at length with my doctor (who is a respected women’s health doctor) and she consulted with some psychologist colleagues. First thing that was said was that all individuals are different with respect to pain, but I was not abnormal: a few comments that I remember at the moment: (sorry, may not have captured everything correct in translation) 1) sex is wired as a pleasure in our brain, but too much of the pleasure can dull it and make it boring over time. Rough or hard sex can be painful and the pain is a contrast to the pleasure and makes the pleasure more noticeable in the brain 2) pain in sex will release dopamines and opioids (like the “Runners High” from physical exertion) as well as the pleasure from the sex itself which also releases the same chemicals….so certainly the potential for a much more intense orgasm 3) intense orgasms and orgasmic trances can turn much nerve stimuli to pleasure, blocking out pain, virtually losing oneself in the moment…and being aware of the potential for crossing the line to more serious injury can occur (I am attesting to that right now) 4) I don’t do any BSDM, no choking, etc….just hard sex and occasionally with huge penises. But, everything needs to be consensual and safe words, etc need to be observed 5) none of this pain turning to pleasure applies at all if there are underlying sexual medical conditions…talk to your doctor My purpose is not to have pain for the purpose of pain! I enjoy bed breaking, earth shaking sex and if some pain is an element that brings me to a higher, more intense orgasmic experience, I’m full speed ahead!
Wow…I’ve been with a couple girls like you, but they are hard to find. Where are you from, I’d love to test you to see if your theories are true!…or at least fantasize about it!
One of my friends takes a good, hard spanking from me at times. She usually tells me what she did and knows she will be spanked. We've done this for years. She gets stripped, hands get tied together and held over her head. She is made to stand on her toes and take her spanking. Across her ass cheeks, thighs. breasts and pussy. Then she gets a bath and oral until she climaxes. She is ALWAYS wet by the time I strip her naked but she will tell you it's not because of being stripped. Like, losing clothing during strip poker is sexy and makes people get hard or wet. No, she is anticipating the pain of the spanking and that's what gets her juices running.
A friend of mine was a Dominatrix. She had her stable of pets that she would inflict pain upon in her "dungeon". She had one pet whose wife brought him to her for discipline. She would tie them up, verbally abuse them, spank and whip them, even to the point of leaving marks on their bodies. She never fucked them (that was our thing outside her BDSM activities) but would issue copious amounts of discipline to these men. The men got off on the pain of being disciplined, cumming at times without fucking, sucking, or even being masturbated. It was a never ending stream of men coming to see her of which she never had sex with. She just treated them like shit and inflicted pain through various ways of spanking. And the men loved it. Or at least they seemed to as they would come back time and time again to be whipped, flogged, and spanked.
My gf had a phase where she'd tie my hands to the bed and then be riding me and also biting hard on my chest. Hard enough for real pain. The contrast was amazing. Her wet welcoming pussy and the hard pain from her teeth it was super intense and she love me squirming and bucking under her, which obviously impailed her more on my cock. The release of orgasm for both of us was amazing.
I can relate to this actually. Sometimes if I do anal play at the same time as masturbating, sometimes everything just intensifies and I start fucking the hell out of my ass with what I am using and the orgasm is so strong - there is pain involved. And afterwards there is a moment of mental "recovery" - a "holy fuccck" moment as you wind off of it.
I am without a doubt a male version of you. I've been taken anally by 4-5 men, one after the other to feel instant pleasure turn into light pain to then transpire into the most enjoyable pleasure begging them not to stop as each of them went from my mouth to my ass and back into my mouth. It was just a fantastic experience for all of us, but I like to think I got the most enjoyment. My ass was stretched out for sure as I was begging for more from all of them and they were all willing to do so. Experiencing multiple sex partners at the same time while being the center of attention is one of the most enjoyable experiences one can experience. I found myself wanting more, even after all five were spent.
An ex of mine liked anal with no lube, she said she liked the initial pain of the dry run as it turned her on. When I first got with her I was soing her from behind and as she was coming she looked over her shoulder and said "do the other one if you want". Not sure I had heard her right I said "uhh". "DO the the other one if you want, my arse, fuck my arse". It was really late as we had been out and I had been up since 4 in the morning for work and to be honest I was shattered and just didn't feel I was awake enough to get her arse ready so said "I'm nearly done, next time" or words to that effect. Next night, we are making out and I'm thinking "maybe it was because she was drunk" but as we were making out she had one arm behind her back and when I stroked her arm and moved downt to her hand I could feel she was fingering her own ass with two fingers and she removed hers and encouraged me to put mine in. I put one in and she soon said "put another in" this was all making me incredibly horns, more so than ever. So there I am fingerings her while taking turns sucking on her ripples and she kept saying "nibble them, nibble them, such em hard, harder suck em harder, as hard as you can". As I got a breather I said "where's your lube" as I really wanted to get her backside ready and she said "no, no lube, just stick it straight in, I like the dry run" so I did and she went wild. She flipped me on my back sat with her back to me with my cock up her arse grabbed her rabbit and proceeded to fuck her pussy whilst bouncing her arse up and down on my cock. We had an absolutely wild snagging times and couldn't get enough of each other so much so the lady neighbour from next door felt that she eventually had to come and have a word as we were keeping them awake at night with constant headboard banging against the wall and my gf was very very crudely vocal.
I can't speak for Jenna, but I have participated in some multiple partner bangs where I had enjoyed being ass fucked by four or five guys in an afternoon that had my ass tingling for a couple days. It was good tingly feeling but yes, I needed to relax during that time as I was also oozing cum out over those couple of days as well.
