Oh, I know when.....about 14 hours from now....I don't think she knows it yet, but it's Friday and it's happening.
I have the ultimate situation. WE DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER. My lady visits for 2-3 nights a week. We she arrives we are both ready. I know we are having sex tomorrow night. When you are living together, there is no special time to look forward to. Living apart, you look forward to seeing each other.
My wife of 25 years is still a sexy vibrant woman. So to answer your question. Whenever I want sex…She is ready. Also whenever she wants sex, I will stop what I’m doing and give it to her. We are a senior couple and have sex 2-3 times weekly. I licked and banged her yesterday afternoon. I don’t need to be concerned about when we will have sex again. It’s all good in my house.
Sometimes....but I'll be like the weatherman....there's a 40% chance of a blowjob tonight, barring any change in the atmospheric pressure and alignment of the planets....stay tuned for a better forecast at 11..."
I have no illusions of having sex again. Mid 60s and the Mrs. has completely shut down for the last five years….. Menopause and other physical issues. I cannot Because of my vows, And if she found out taking 1/2 of everything that I have. So it is just my right hand and a few toys probably for the rest of my life.
As a single guy, never married, 62 now, it's hard. I have failed with women so many times that I'm only interested in guys now. But without a boyfriend or at least a close friend with benefits, even though there are lots of bi & gay men out there looking for sex, I still find it difficult to hook up. It requires a lot of effort through the gay sites and apps. I'd love sex every day, or at least once a week, but that's never happened. So I don't know when I'll have sex again, perhaps in a month or two if I'm super lucky and get off my ass. I crave sex with men every day though, and do way too much masturbating.
My recommendation is don’t rely online 100% ..never hooked up online for myself …All my encounters have been through wife , bar and gym . My happy place is the gym …jus show some signs and be open in the change room ..,it will naturally come. There are so many men open …then we think. Easy to pick up men than women …no wonder I have become more bi/gay than traditional bisexual…. I also crave sex more and more with men …it’s the path i have migrated my ultimate goal is see many more men as possible with different backgrounds…,that’s why I haven’t committed to my gay lover and we have an open relationship.
Thanks for the bar and gym advice. I haven't been to the gym in probably a year, even though I'm still paying my monthly fees. And when I've been going it was to swim lengths. But I've always been so shy and reserved with my gay desires in the locker room my lifelong, always keeping my eyes down and pretending I'm totally straight--of course then making a hookup impossible (except once around 2000). But the last couple of times I do remember being more open with my homosexuality/bisexuality, not afraid of showing desire for the bodies around me. I think I'll go back to swimming and try this more openness in the locker room, directly looking at cock and ass, and trying to catch a guy's eye and not being afraid and immediately looking away, but keeping that eye contact--if those are the signs you're talking about. And I've never tried the bar thing, even when I lived in big cities. Now I live in a region with small cities and towns, and no gay bars of course. First of all, I haven't drunk any alcohol since 1995. Secondly, I don't like competitive sports, which rules out quite a number of bars in my redneck region. Of course, I could go to dance clubs, but I am 63, and hate House music (not to mention women, though they still are pretty eye candy for me). But your advice gives me an idea. I live in Niagara Falls Canada, a major tourist destination with a ton of skyscraper hotels (heck, within a 10 minute walk from my house), and I'm sure all of them have bars, with perhaps lonely gay or bi men. But I won't hook up with any cheaters. But I can go there, sip on my nonalcoholic drinks, and see what happens. Hmmmmm...