I have searched pretty deeply in this specific forum for a discussion on ruined orgasms and have not found anything. I started ruining my orgasms about 5 years ago. I would only do it occasionally, because I love a full orgasm with as much cum as possible. But, lately, I've been on a marathon of ruins. It's such an intense experience and you stay horny for hours after. I will edge and ruin multiple times during my session. I've gone for 5 days, which is a good record for a guy with no discipline. Instead of my cock going into "Pump" mode to pump out ropes of cum, my cock seizes up for a few seconds and semen will start to flow out like a fountain. The first one will produce the most cum, but, I may only get a dribble on the second and third. I may go limp in between, but, I'm soo horny that I keep on playing and stroking. I hope that there are others out there that have tried this.
Same. Sometimes, I get too close and by the time I pull my vibrator away from my penis, the feeling that I’m about to cum keeps up for up to 10 seconds and then just a little bit oozes out slowly. Sometimes it’s watery and not dissimilar from precum. Love it!
I don't know if there's a better name, since I think normally if it's ruined it implies you triggered the refractory period. I also do this method, since it lets me release stuff over and over without getting tired. There's no orgasm, but it's still pleasurable. The times I get the timing and the relaxation perfect, it sometimes comes out like a normal ejaculation. It's very very addictive. Your mind switches from wanting to orgasm to wanting to release stuff over and over. Even after I finish normally and stop, the next few days I think about doing it again.
I had a girlfriend who was in the habit of, while giving me a hand job, moving her hand to half way down my shaft as soon as i started coming. For me, nothing ruins it like moving your grip away from the head/neck once the main event starts.
I think that there are a variety of definitions for a ruin. My cock will sieze up and release cum, but I don't feel satisfied (as with a full orgasm). I stay horny. I may go soft for a little or I may remain hard. Either way, I STILL need to stroke. My orgasm will consist of my cock pumping out ropes of cum over and over again. I will fell satisfied and won't be able to continue. So, I'm not sure if I'm using the correct phrase, but you and I agree that it is addicting. I love the combination of releasing some cum but STILL being horny.
Ruined orgasms are my favorite! I very much enjoy denial and ruined orgasms. Just a stroke past an edge then hands off....I throb..watch my cock twitch and sometimes a drop or two other times nothing. But the feeling & mental parts are great...
Now what I want is to be tied up and have someone ruin my orgasm...especially if it is whil I am sucking their cock or with one in my ass....
I don’t do this as often now that I’m 65, at which age I usually am more satisfied if I go ahead and orgasm at the first opportunity (because it takes longer to get there), but when I was younger sometimes when I masturbated, as I was building toward climax and got just as I got past the point of no return but an instant before ejaculating, I would stop touching my cock and just let the semen spurt out freely. This was contrary to my instincts, because that is the point at which I usually increase intensity, because it is pure ecstasy, but stopping and “ruining” the orgasm would have the effect of keeping my cock rock hard for a lot longer time, and keep my body desiring the session to continue. So then after, as the orgasm was subsiding, I could then resume rubbing and jacking my now very sensitive cock, the sensations now being highly magnified, so that I can then keep myself on the edge of ecstasy for as long as I can take it. Eventually I would have to cum again in order for to satisfy my cock, but since I had just ejaculated I couldn’t cum quickly, and so could enjoy a longer buildup to the next orgasm.
Im doing a lot of this at the moment.. I use a cock and ball ring too and sometimes a dildo inside. I can play for hours getting myself so close I can't stsnd it. But the feeling when I ruin it is amazing. I ooze pre cum when my cock is semi and just rub the head. I don't always manage because I crave orgasms, Im on 6 today and getting hard as a rock writing this.
