Being told they’re ready to cum

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  1. Maturegamwm

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    When I’m sucking cock I’ll tell them not to tell me when they’re getting ready to cum. I love the surprise of my mouth all of a sudden being filled. How about the rest of you? Do you want to know or not?
     
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  2. One Man Band

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    You usually feel it building.
     
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  3. KDaddy23

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    I guess it doesn't matter - you can usually tell when they're about to cut loose. I've sucked guys who didn't give any "sign" that they were about to cum and there it is in my mouth and, okay, time to swallow it all...
     
  4. RisingBi

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    I prefer them telling me because I love deepthroating and when they're cumming I definitely want the head of their cock in my mouth so I can taste and feel their awesome semen before swallowing. I might not necessarily notice their orgasm ready to explode, though I would've noticed it building. And if they like a saliva-drenched finger in their ass, I want to make sure I stick it deep inside their beautiful hole right before they explode. It often makes for a more powerful orgasm, and I'm all about my lover's pleasure.
     
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  5. Windman

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    I never let them know to tell me but often they do. I think some guys think it’s a courtesy. Other guys just let loose, most of the time I can tell it’s well on the way.
     
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  6. LG2424

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    That sounds good
     
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  7. Flypaper

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    This. A lifetime* of believing that I should be grateful for a lady even sucking me off, never mind the elusive** swallow, has basically trained me to alert the person on the receiving end of my cock that ima gonna cum, as a courtesy in case they want to pull away.

    *Except for you, past GF A, who never missed a chance to give head.
    ** GF A was getting near daily protein loads back in our late 20s. Ah youth!
     
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  8. amb5734

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    I want to know when he's about to cum. I want his cock to be deep in my mouth, enjoying the feeling of it squirting against the back of my throat and swallowing it all as he shoots his load. Almost no chance of any of it slipping out of my mouth regardless of how much he gives me.
     
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  9. Flypaper

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    I love the look in their eyes when my load is building up, lips are suctioned lovingly around my shaft and with a dart of the eyes and a blink of the lashes I know that this time my seed is going to go deep into his or her gullet. And the bubbles that sometimes happen when they forget to get a breath before blast off and need to get a slip of air in just as the semen is filling up their mouth. Yum!
     
  10. Suburbanray

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    I have not taken a load yet, but I would at least want a heads up that he has reached the point of no return for 3 reasons.
    1. So I do not choke, gag.
    2. So I don't miss the cum shot with his cock out of my mouth going up and down on it.
    3. To anticipate and share the excitement!
     
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  11. KDaddy23

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    Thanks to "most" girls/women who have sucked my dick, the next thing said after they said that they'd do it would be, "You'd better not cum in mouth so you better tell me that you're gonna cum!" You did not want a real accident to happen because she might not be all that understanding. Going forward in these things, it is said that telling the person who's sucking your dick that you're about to cum is proper etiquette - I do remember reading it somewhere but by the time I read it, I routinely would tell someone sucking my dick that I was gonna cum and especially for anyone who was sucking dick for the first time.

    The guy who flooded my mouth with goo didn't warn me that something was about to happen. I'm sucking on his dick, getting all lost in the new sensations and... stuff is in my mouth. I wasn't mad or anything because I didn't know that I could get mad about it but as I said earlier, it doesn't matter if he warns me or not because I can usually tell when he's gonna cum.
     
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  12. LowHangers

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    I've never needed or asked a guy to tell me they were about to cum; I can tell when he's about to explode. I would say about 90% of the guys I've sucked off over the years have all said, "Here I Cum". I know that and am wanting him too. It's common for a guy to inform whoever is sucking their cock that they are about to cum. I'm OK with it and I actually enjoy hearing them say it so I can position their shaft to the right depth in my mouth to feel his explosion as I swallow each spurt of his load. It's an amazing feeling that both him and I enjoy as I know I've satisfied him fully.
     
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  13. BiInVA

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    I typically announce it..as for the guy I'm sucking...up to him. As long as he shoots his load in my mouth so I can swallow...announced or not..just cum in my mouth!.
     
  14. KC69

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    I will sometimes suck cocks at a local glory hole. Most guys don’t let me know when they’re about to cum. I love it when I feel their squirts hitting the back of my throat as the first sign of them cumming. Sometimes there are certain guys that are load moaners and you know when they’re about to explode.
     
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  15. Piobaire

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    I think it's just common courtesy. I've cum several times in guy's mouths who either weren't expecting it or didn't want it, and for whatever reason didn't communicate that to me. Just because I swallow doesn't mean everyone does.
     
  16. Cmlovr

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    I can tell they are ready to cum 99.1% of the time. I've been given a few surprise cumshots and don't mind at all. "I'm going to cum in your mouth" are pretty sexy words to hear, though.
     
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  17. LowHangers

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    It doesn't matter to me either way because I want him to cum in my mouth, thus why I'm sucking on his cock. It's a turn on for me to hear him say he is about to cum, and I don't want to miss out on a single drop of it.
     
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