Try subtly suggesting such to a qualified female. Definitely DON'T demand it. You never know. Things do happen.
Hello my name is Steven and I've never been spanked before and want to experience one from a strict maternal figure
This is very true. A ftiend (not a play friend) told me years ago that I'd never get anywhere unless I asked. Some will be offended. Many will say no. Some will say yes or steer me in a different direction. The girl who I spank sometimes is a FWB and I never knew she wanted a spanking until one day she lingered....on purpose....in that area of an adult book store. When I went to find her she "asked me" with a look in her eyes and a few very subtle questions. That turned into a long discussion about her acting out and the need to be spanked like when she was a little girl again. That part is a long story and involved being caught masturbating when she was younger so definitely a PM thing if anyone is interested. In any event, her punishment now is handled by me but usually for things done outside of my presence and usually with her spouse. But again, it took an ask. Just saying. Doesn't have to be spanking. Could be anything.
In case it matters to you, the percentage of USA persons that engage in spanking is higher than the percentage of people that play golf.