any transient consensual sex with another guy (or lady) should be a mutually pleasurable activity of satisfactory duration. now.. if the other guy put Super Glue on his lips or cock, that might become a relationship requiring intervention..
I began fantasizing about men only about 15 or so years ago. I’m 59 now. I pretty much only watch gay and cuckold porn. I’ve been with 20 men since. I love pleasing men sexually I don’t find men attractive. Unless they are nude with a hard cock. About 3 years ago I convinced my my wife to try being a hotwife. She does it now regularly. If I were single again I would absolutely be exclusive to men.
As I get older I don't want just a hook up but someone regular, maybe to live with. Someone like my two teenage bfs, who I can suck and pleasure or take them in my ass when ever they are horny and want to cum. To fulfill their every sexual want where I can avoid the drama and problems fussy brings, and be naked and getting lots of cock & cum. When younger was more into you do/ make me then I'll do/make you. Now it's more wanting to be the bottom, F, sub and take cock & cum for the other's pleasure . Others?