I recently caught up with a former co-worker while at a conference. We didn't work close together but knew each other and had fun now and then. She said that she has begun to visit an old school friend to have him go down on her. Her husband has no interest and doesn't like to do it anyway. Plus, she's tired of the same old thing. So she visits, strips, lays back, props her head up so she can watch and then let's him go down until she can't take it any longer. Dresses and leaves. No reciprocation. She's only interested in getting off on his oral work. Now, I know men like me actively seek a blowjob but this is far less common. Thoughts? PS...I offered to be her backup but since she's in Missouri and I'm in NH that's probably not going to happen! Sad....I could use some practice....
As I have posted from time to time I can’t tell you how many countless women say they love oral and how many men either don’t do it, don’t know how to do it or rush it. I learned from a milf when I was a teenager who then told her friends and so on. Same in college, work casual acquaintances etc even to this day. Women talk about it with each other and someone like me who enjoys it tremendously enjoy providing them satisfaction.
From the moment I ate my first pussy, the word was out there that women did not like men who (a) didn't eat at the Y and (b) only gave the kitty a token lick or two. Word on the underground was that the ladies were looking for guys who would not only go down on them but stay down on them until she had enough. That worked for me because I was a pussy-eating fool and I was taught to stay down there no matter what and that, too, worked. I got to eat a lot of pussies because guys and boyfriends didn't want to even try to really get them warmed up by eating them into a frenzy. In my experiences going forward, that they complain about not getting enough head hasn't changed. This doesn't include the two women I ran into where one didn't like to get head - but loved to give it - and the other didn't believe in oral sex, period. I have met and convinced women who have said that giving them head does nothing for them and, well, what's it gonna hurt to let me try? And like my pussy eating teacher taught me, "If she's not looking at you like you tried to kill her, you didn't do it right." I have always believed that there's a difference between liking to go down on a woman and loving to do it and, shit yeah, I love to eat pussy and will stay down there for as long as she'll let me eat her. And, if you're married, if you don't do that, someone else will be chowing down on her like a fiend.
in my experience, I would say that women do not get enough. Over the years I have had a few married FWB….. strictly oral. One had been married to the only guy she had been with, and apparently he was not into going down on her. When I did she went off like a gangbuster! What was wrong with her husband? a horny woman with a bald wet pussy. Another younger married girl that was smooth… she loved it. She even commented “where did you learn to do that?“ my feeling is that when you enjoy what you do, you’re naturally good at it! I will have to say my favorite was a coworker that we would cross paths a couple times a year on business trips. we always ended up in one of our hotel rooms. She was always enthusiastic about reciprocating, but unfortunately, she was not very good at it. Our last time together was a fairly long drawn out night a lot of kissing and I could not keep my mouth off of her body….. she had what I would describe as perfect breasts and ass! Anyway I worked my way down south, and she came in short order…. and again….. and again. She tried sucking me, and although it felt good, she ended up giving me a hand job. Cool! I thought the evening was over, until she looked me in the eyes and said AGAIN! Who was I to argue? so she came on my mouth five times that night. it has been years since I’ve been with her. She started hinting around about leaving her husband and us getting hitched. RED FLAG! What is it with men that will not enthusiastically go down on their woman? IDIOTS!
Inevitably, those idiots learn that if you don't eat her pussy like it's your last meal, someone else will be eating her pussy.
Of the 10 or 11 women I've had sex with I went down on all of them; I couldn't wait to get down there and I stayed down there until they begged me to stop.
Like they used to say - and sometimes says today - "You gotta lick it before you can stick it!" and, again, a few token licks ain't gonna work.
I love eating pussy and for years, I would gladly eat my wife out. But, I do admit that at SOME point a little reciprocation is appreciated. Having to continually ask really lowered my self esteem. Now, men receive my oral skills instead of her.
Does her husband know she’s getting oral from another guy? If he doesn’t want to do it I can see him being ok with her getting it from someone else but only if she doesn’t do anything for him.
Yes. In his mind, she's getting what he has no interest in. She just needs this. And loves watching what her husband doesn't like at all. I guess it all works out...
