Suck or be sucked

By far my favourite is 69 with a guy, simultaneously sucking cock and getting sucked: it is so amazing to have my mouth and throat wrapped around a guy's beautiful cock while feeling his mouth and throat wrapped around my cock. Man-on-man 69 is absolute perfection, and since I discovered the incredible pleasures of anal play, I now love to do it as foreplay, maybe eventually deepening the 69 with me going past his cock and balls and beginning to rim his perfect asshole.

In terms of the choice of sucking cock or getting sucked: I have zero interest in hooking up with a guy that just wants to suck my cock (there seems to be so many bisexual men out there that want to do that, always advertising no reciprocation needed). And I no longer have any interest in getting together, for example, with a straight man who just wants his cock sucked. For me, it's always both, sucking cock and getting sucked. Cock is the most beautiful thing in the universe, and therefore always needs to be shared between men.

The only time I'll agree not to suck his cock is when he is a total bottom and only wants his asshole to be played with (and sucking my cock), and since I am obsessed with a male asshole, I will agree, and attack his asshole with my entire face, tongue, fingers, and cock with hunger like you've never seen. The young 20-year-old twink with whom I lost my gay virginity with in 2013 was such a guy: every time I attempted to put his cock in my mouth he pushed my face away, and just re-presented his ass to me to continue rimming him.

 

i prefer sucking to getting sucked. i only had one person in my whole life who could consistently make me cum every time they sucked me. its never been done since. i have had many people over t he years try and they think "they " are the one to do it. it got to a point where it was just awkward for me and so i just told them i dont want it. i will gladly suck a cock off and swallow whatever he wants to give me..

 

My mouth needs cock in the same way my body needs oxygen. I do not mind at all bumping into a guy who feels the same way, though.

 

My wife said ita ok for me to get sucked she would.watch but she's not real fond of.me.sucking

 

Ok...lucky you! Maybe get her to watch him suck you and after a bit statt sucking his cock. She might just change her mind! (They do that). Mine used to tell me I should suck a cock to see what it's like & to swallow his cum. Always hoped she'd set it up, but it ended not longer after that. Best i got was her feeding me my cum.

 

There's a lot to be said for people eagerly willing to take on the challenge, and give it the old college try to make you cum by oral, though?

 

I could and would love to suck every day

 

I forgot to add that I also have difficulty cumming by oral sex alone? It's almost as if my cock is too stimulated to orgasm, if that makes sense?

I wonder how much of it is psychological fear conditioning from my first blowjobs, where the woman threatened holy hell if I came inside her mouth? And the harsh repercussions of no sex ever again, even if I did by accident?!

 

I've known - and have sucked off - a lot of guys who said that they couldn't cum via a blowjob and a lot of them were "traumatized" by women who did threaten all holy hell if you came in their mouth, which wound up conditioning those guys to not be able to do it. It takes patience and time to suck a guy off who can't cum. My late son-in-law was one of them and he seemed to be... proud of the fact that he couldn't cum from a blowjob but when I blew him, oh, yeah, he came big time and he was so surprised.

 

I wouldn't be proud of it? Hell, I want to be able to enjoy it more by being able to release and cum from it, plus doing it into the mouth of someone eager to take my load! The few times I was able to, the women were enthusiastic for it! I'm sure that helped any mental blocks?!

 

I'll put it like this, Suburanray: If it's a guy sucking your dick, you can be assured that he wants you to cum in his mouth and he's going to enthusiastically do everything he can to make it happen.