When you're masturbating with someone and you cum first do you leave it that and just watch the other person finish or do you cum multiple times? When I masturbate with friends I'm always the first to cum and it can depend on how I feel but almost always I will get off at least a second time (if not a third) while the other person gets off. I love it. I think it's way better than just cumming once.
At 53, I don't cum multiple times. So, I try to determine the pace of the others and try to stay hard as long as I can. If I cum first, I will offer to help others or simply enjoy the view.
I hear you. I'm in my 40s and with sex partners it's difficult for me to cum. I only get off probably one out of every three or four times. Mutual masturbation usually does the trick in the end but we have to be really showing our genitals off for one another. I need a "front row seat" sometimes. But doing it just for shits and giggles with friends, I cum as quickly as 30 seconds to within a couple minutes. Sometimes, I don't even have a chance to get hard on my first go-round.
Me cumming first has very rarely happened because I've always put my partners pleasure ahead of my own and besides, when I was younger it was a given that once my cock was in a hot, tight, hole...that I was absolutely going to cum once, and if I was REALLY horny, twice, was a definite possibility, and besides, giving my wife or playmate a good, strong, orgasm was/is something that gave/gives me great pleasure and satisfaction. But at 63, me cumming during sex is no longer a given and both our sex drives have dropped, the wife's especially so due to various issues, and hearing her constantly talk about how bad she feels isn't exactly a turn on either.....
The question is about mutual masturbation. Not sex. When it comes to sex, I'm the same as you. In fact, I rarely cum because I put so much focus on getting my partners off.
