First, its a matter of personal preferences and mental attitude. Next, the scientific facts , its harmless , consisting of protein and sugars and water. Once I tried it, at my gfs insistance, I discovered that my own hangups held me back from the new pleasures I discovered. Lustful kisses, fantastic oral for both of us. Lovemaking went far beyond Cum and Go. It became a Win/Win. I verified my discovery with many women who also found it to be very pleasureable and lustfull.
For me it’s exciting that I made him cum. I can share in the ecstasy of his orgasm being the recipient of it. I like to feel his cock swell and then twitch and spasm. The flood of his cum tastes good and the sensation of it spurting into my mouth is exciting.
I always swallow. It's so intimate, and feels so complete, like there's no separation between me and the man's orgasm. I usually let it linger in my mouth a bit, I love the warmth and texture of it.
At soon to be 64 I have posted that I am fortunate to have several partners who enjoy my cum in them and on them. I produce a large volume and having sex regularly seems to keep production up. Yesterday fucked the wife and lapped up what came out. Mid day an impromptu blow job and last night with my fb also lapped up and kissed her so she could have some. My other partners equally enjoy. In my opinion it’s as delicious as a females juices
I never thought of it as 'intimate' but that is exactly the right word for me too, especially with the guys that have been my FWBs for many years.
I love it when guys cum in my mouth! I crave it on some deep, primal level that nothing else fully satisfies. Something almost mystical happens when he fills my whole being with his taste; literally the distillation of his life force, and I incorporate it into my being.
It took me a long time to suck a cock. I had tasted my own cum plenty of times either by licking up a bit here and there from her body or from getting a cum kiss after I left a load in her mouth and she shared. But a couple of years ago I lost a football game bet and of course the bet was that I would give my first blowjob. No rules about swallowing, just a blowjob to the finish. Finally found a bi friend and got to suck my first time (pm for details rather than an overly long post). I thought about whether I would gag or even want to swallow but I was so focused on trying to do a good job that I barely noticed the swelling of his penis and then, all of a sudden, the gush. Without even thinking, I swallowed it all and it kind of surprised the both of us. To me, I love getting sucked and swallowed so it seemed to be the complete thing to do. I haven't sucked too many more since then but they all ended with a swallow. Very intimate. Very.
Last night I was with my fb and after she came a few times orally and vaginally I was ready to cum inside her when she asked me to cum in her mouth. I pulled out and gave her my load which she gulped down every drop. She said she wanted to taste me at the moment mixed with her juice and likes the way I taste. She does blow and swallow me regularly but this was a little change. I got hard again and finished round 2 in her
There is also the dynamic of once a guy cums in my mouth the blowjob really isn’t finished. After I’ve swallowed most of his cum I can continue to suck him gently and lick the little bit of cum that continues to ooze from his cock. Keeping him right at that pinnacle of ecstasy. I can read his response and not go overboard, his cock is very sensitive and it’s easy to over stimulate him. But by just lightly sucking and caressing his cock with my mouth I can extend his pleasure. If I was worried about the taste or texture of cum I would miss out on making the most of his orgasm.
I just asked my partner why she almost always swallows. Part of it is intimacy but also control. And she likes the taste as well. And if I don't cum in her mouth she says it feels incomplete somehow. Even when we are fucking it is not uncommon for her to have me pull out and cum in her mouth. Sometimes if one of our playmates is giving me a blowjob she will ask to take over and finish me off. It's not uncommon for her to give me a blowjob at least once a day and sometimes multiple times a day. I am very very lucky.
I can so relate to this ….it’s not about jus doing a blowjob …it’s how you get elevated that experience and properly finish it up and both feel wow experience….I also want to be treated that way as well