I used to definitely only be a guy's girl but that has changed over time. In my mid-twenties when I started to settle into long-term relationships with men, I started to cultivate more relationships with women. Now I would say I have a broad-base group of close girlfriends and far fewer guys in my life.
Hanging with the Guys, I am not into the stereo typical girl stuff. I wear makeup but don't obsess over it. I'm not a fan of shopping or spa days. I'd rather go to a junk yard, work on a car or just talk shop talk then girl talk.
I've never thought about it in those particular terms, but the vast majority of my friends are women. And the vast majority of my guy friends are trans, gay, or both.
Jane and her friends have what they call a "Hen Night" every few months, where they go out for a meal or to a local bar. It is quite of a tradition in the south west of Ireland. The problem is that when they have the night out in London, I get a call at 2am to collect and deliver them home. Some years ago when there were more than half a dozen, I had to use my work vehicle. The restaurant owner was not very happy when I pulled up outside in an emergency London ambulance.
I tend to hang with guys. I don't have a lot in common with most other women. Clearly over the years I have had women friends but I have never really been invested in the friendship. The more I think about it now though I am very happy in my own company. I have a partner, I am very gregarious and confident even with strangers but am incredibly self sufficient.
I'm a girls girl. Grew up with a single mother, my only male figure in my family being my grandfather whom got divorced from my grandmom when I was in my early teens so he became a bit more distant to us because grandma came to live with us so my inner family circle has been female only which in turn made me lean towards female friendships and less open to socially interact with men other than of course dating. I made several male friends in my life but never a FRIEND FRIEND those you share everything with like I know some of my female friends have. I doubt ever doubted male-female friendships but just wasn't my thing, not out of prejudice but just how I naturally flow.
I feel like I could be either?? Like last night I hung out with my friends who are girls and it was great. We played card games and had some shots. I can also hang with the guys. I would say I probably lean more towards a guys girl. Probably because I grew up with older brothers.
I know I'm a little late to this thread but I tend to avoid other women because of the drama. Some of my closest friends are women but I've known them for years but trying to make new female friends is hard. I definitely get along with guys better just because I enjoy watching sports.