Are you more mechanical , to get the job done, or do you attack each encounter with a Lust that makes each experience worth it.
Personally I enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Cumming isn’t the only goal in mind. There is lots of pleasure to both be given and received before that is achieved.
If you're not going to bring the lust, why bother? The only time you "get the job done" is when you find having sex with whomever to be distasteful or a waste of your time and now you're doing it because "you have to."
I’m Into it fully couldn’t just go through the motions I like passion and give it my all when I’m with a guy
If I see that the guy I'm with really likes guys, not just a cock, then it explodes the passion out of me, and I put everything into "making love" to him and with him. Sometimes the lust is quite uncontrollable, and other times it's a very loving kind of passion. I may have started out 30 years ago with more the mechanical, but there is no question, I've become very passionate with guys.
early in my bi life I was mechanical….now that I have active gay experiences, it’s more lustfull and intimate…best sex is when there is lust and passion
