Bi/gay relationships..more then hook up

Those who play the bi or gay life or even combination of bi/gay like myself …..

Anyone have active bi or gay relationships…more than the traditional hook up for sex but more or true bi/gay love.

I service variety of men from my wife’s boyfriend to my own hook up …there are few guys …our mm is more than jus sex….

Does that mean we are in mm bi/gay relationships leading more love ???

Does anyone have feelings, affection or love towards any of your mm partners ?

 

I have a friendship with a guy I see for sex. It’s not romantic really. We enjoy each others company and enjoy being naked together and what that leads to. For me it’s not really an “ I’m in love” thing. But it also don’t care for random

 

Most of my hookups have been one timers. I've only so far seen one guy more than twice (maybe 5 times), so that's the only one where something more could've developed, and it kind of did. I really liked the guy, and enjoyed going out to dinner with him or having him cook for me and after sex cuddling in front of a TV. He wanted a more serious and romantic relationship, but unfortunately I was still repressing a lot back then and couldn't admit to myself romantic feelings for him. Much of the repression has lifted in me, and I've been able to happily accept my homosexuality. Looking back at that relationship, I can see very much now that love for him was growing in me. I kick myself every day that I didn't meet him now instead.

So I am definitely open to finding a close friendship with a guy who I also have sex with (FWB), or even falling in love. In fact, a FWB is by far my preference, because I'm tired of one nightstands and all the work that goes into trying to successfully hook up with guys. Of course, I could also develop a stable of regular guys that I continuously have sex with but don't do friend stuff together as an alternative, which is something to consider as well. But I am also a romantic at heart, or at least a more deeply emotional kind of guy. So at least friendship with sex is more likely.

 

Whatever happened to that guy? (If I can ask)

 

Whatever happened to that guy? (If I can ask)

 

They can be much more than just hooking up but hooking up is... convenient. NSA. No promises, no conditions as long as we can agree on, at the least, blowing each other; something like anal? Well, I'd want to know you a whole lot better but for the moment? It's time for dicks to get sucked. Blow and go? Not a problem because, if nothing else, we both have other things to do. If you're interested in something more... 'binding', sure, I might be interested, and we can talk about it... after we suck each other off - is a side-by-side 69 okay with you?

Let's get it on! The last guy I had feelings for, well, it was nice; the sex we had was... interesting. He couldn't bring himself to suck my dick so he said that it wasn't fair for me to have to jerk off after sucking him off so... I could fuck him. I... really wasn't trying to hear that at the time but the next thing I know, we're in the shower together and I'm assuming the position against the shower wall while his prick is plunging in and out of me and it was so good and I wanted more but... he fucked me, he liked it, but it wasn't for him.

I started out frotting him and one night he says, "Are you going to put that big motherfucker in me or what?" I make a lame excuse like I don't want to hurt him and he says, "Get it in me and fuck me already... damn." I lube us up and get into position and I'm really feeling some kind of way about this until he grabs my ass and... pulls me right into him. He says, "Fuck, damn, that feels good..." and wraps his legs around me and I fuck him like I owned him until I came in him. It became a regular thing that I knew was going to end so getting attached was out of the question but I did have feelings for him. No kissing. No cuddling. No strings. Oh, and he had never been with a man before but the way he took me inside of him? You wouldn't have known that his ass was virgin before I got in him.

I'd suck him off - jeez, he could cum in "rivers" even when I'd double-suck him. Then lube and sliding into his tight hole and listening to him sigh and fuck back against me and seeing the look on his face when I cum in him. It was nice but, again, it wasn't going to last, and I was surprised it lasted as long as it did but no pressure. He could stop any time he wanted to. I don't know if he had feelings other than lust for me, but he trusted me and that meant everything. A month or so after it's over with he tells me, "I miss it."

For a moment, I have no idea what he's talking about but then, it clicks in my head, and I just smile and say, "We were good together, weren't we?" After we "broke up" which was funny since we were never really "together," I had plenty of guys to hook up with to just fuck and suck because life goes on.

 

The 2 guys I see regularly it’s been almost a year for both, one guy we text every day, the other guy it is just for sex. I’m not romantically involved with either but the guy who i text daily it’s a friendship with benefits. I’m not in love with him or have romantic feelings it’s just a close friend

 

Sexual relationships that last a long time are usually built on close friendships.

 

I've had a friendship with a guy for almost 14/15 years now. Over those 15 years we have probably sucked each other off at least 2,000 times so it's hard not to have feelings for him. Do I love him? Of course, I do but not in the same way I love my wife if that makes any sense. I've been in love with his sexy cock from day one, but not necessarily him as a man. He and I have experienced a lot together that doesn't involve sex which has in my opinion bonded our friendship so close. We know every detail of each other's lives equally as much as our wives. It's fair to say that he and I are "lovers" that are not necessarily "in love" with each other. Those words have only rarely been spoken over our 15-year relationship. What has really bonded the two of us so close is our wives are well aware of our sexual relationship and have embraced it and never once tried to discourage it. There are times when we want to be with our wives and there are times when we want to be alone together. It's worked for a very long time and has been very enjoyable for both of us.