who instigated Bi Interests in your marraige?

In your married life,Which one of you brought up the topic of Bi Sexuality? How far did you take the conversation? Did it result in doing something that you never even imagined before?
We were surrounded by alternate life styles when we were in the NYC textile business. We told each other about being hit on by our gay and bi associates and decided that we should at least try it once, before condeming it. No strings about it. Wife tried it with a person she met through work. She said it was exciting at the moment because it was a new and interesting experience. She then said she wanted me to try it next. I was too parinoid about Aids and put it off for a while until the time and situation was right. Well, that time came and I did it with a close friend who was always open to the idea.
When and how did you get involved?
BTW, we never condemed it. It was an enhancement

 

This is an active conversation in my marriage right now. I'm the one the brought it up and we are figuring out what it means. My partner has expressed interest in potentially being with another woman, so we might end up having a very similar situation to you - each of us exploring a same sex experience solo. Time will tell!

 

I had already been involved with other married men for mutual oral sex when I met my present wife. She asked one evening while sucking on my cock, so I opened up to her that I too enjoy sucking cock and have done so hundreds of times. She was so wanting to hear about it and eventually wanted to witness as well. She was so excited and turned on watching me sucking his cock that she joined in, and we've done so with my regular guy many, many times. Her pussy would get so wet watching us 69 sucking each other before we gave her both of our cocks from each end. I can't say she instigated my bisexuality, but she certainly enhanced it by convincing me to eventually allow him to fuck me in the ass which really turned her on to witness. She engaged with his wife a few times and it was so hot watching them eat each other's pussies. My wife ate her pussy a few times but preferred her to eat her pussy while she was sucking on our cocks before he and I focused on their pleasures.

 

My xw told me, more than once, that I should have to suck a cock and have a guy cum in my mouth to know what it's like. Never told her about my teens and sucking and swallowing...but hoped she'd set it up with her brother, her bff's husband, guy she worked with, or any other guy. But didn't happen.

 

she indirectly got many ideas on my head …after experiencing it and admitting….she pushes me further..,we have an open marriage, i have the privilege of serving her lovers ..