Why did you try the Bi option?

that's the way it works, isn't it?
whether trapping for bear or beaver (or if they're trying to trap you) the successful trappers always dangle the bait in a way that whispers "oh c'mon.. don't worry.. you won't get hooked if you try it JUST THIS ONCE!"

and so, we do.. and that's why we continue to lick both beaver and bear.. (oops.. I mean 'like')

 

Initial situation was a guy starting sucking me at a party when I had passed out in the bedroom. I woke up as I came and saw the silhouette of a guy go out the door. Never found out who it was but realized that it was the best blow job I had ever had. It was years later when I acted on it by swapping a massage with a fellow and each of us gave the other a happy ending

 

Both spouses being bisexual isn't necessarily all that it's cracked up to be (and threesomes, FFM or MMF are certainly no guarantee either).
Like me, my wife is also bisexual, and she's had sex (and relationships) with more women than men. I've always been supportive, and encouraging when it comes to her need/desires for women, including one time when she had a major crush on a lesbian friend of hers. Unfortunately, her friend wasn't interested, because her friend is a "stem" (a combination of "stud" and "fem" , and honestly, she's really beautiful) and my wife is quite tomboyish herself. You know what they say about "opposites attract", and her friend is only interested in very feminine women. That was a major blow to my wife's ego, though she got over it, and their still friends.
When I initially told my wife that I'm bisexual (shortly after we started dating), she seemed to be very interested (wanted to hear of my experiences with other guys), inquisitive, and even turned on. That was a long time ago (17 years ago), and nowadays, to say she's very "iffy" (hot and cold) when it comes to my bisexuality would be an understatement. There's still times she seems to be turned on and accepting of my bisexuality (like when her and I watch gay or MMF bisexual porn, or when we openly discuss the idea of a MMF threesome with her boyfriend), but more often than not, she seems to be less approving and accepting of my bisexuality.
She knows I'm a total bottom and sexually submissive with men, and sometimes I think that causes her to look at me "differently."
Being bisexual herself, I never thought I'd face criticism or judgment from my wife, but at times I feel like she does both. There's even times when she not shy about saying she thinks I'm "more gay" than straight, even though I'm not, and honestly, it's kinda hurtful. I would never accuse her of being a "lesbian" just because I know she's had more relationships and sex with women than men, and I'd love to get the same acceptance and approval from her, but honestly, I don't believe I do. It's like she uses my true sexual orientation against me sometimes, which kinda sucks.
Just a cautionary tale, but just because two spouses are both bisexual, that doesn't necessarily mean their sex life and sexual preferences are always going to align perfectly.

 

Since I got tossed into this when I was nine, my only "choices" were to sink... or swim - and swimming turned out to be more fun than I could ever imagine. But I have always wondered what makes a guy decide that, if he needs sex, getting it from a guy just seems to make sense. There are bro-jobs, you know, two horny guys (usually friends), sometimes booze is involved, horny and it's okay if we were to help each other out, right? But I've felt that a guy who has been straight all of his life must make a conscious decision to turn to guys for sex instead of "playing the game" with women - and then not being able to get the pussy. I've been the guy who has given a lot of other guys their first experience and I know what they've told me when I've asked them, "Why would you want to do something that's going to change your life forever?" Curious. A clear lack of pussy/no sex in the relationship. Too introverted to be social enough to try to get pussy. Stressed out for various reasons. One guy said, "Why the hell not? I've pretty much done everything else except suck a dick!"

 

Curiosity, porn, spur of the moment opportunity to move past just passive Curiosity. And then the flood gates were open.

 

I think originally I became interested in bisexuality because of porn. I found that I was attracted to penises and man asses. I’d already been into pegging for years and found myself wondering how the real thing would feel deep inside me. I have yet to experience that but I have sucked, tasted and swallowed. That in itself is awesome fun. My ex wife and I participated in a few MMF and sucked off men together. I now endeavor to experience receiving and giving anal. I’ve never been interested in kissing a man but the older I get the more I consider it.

 

I m not "try", I think I m born bi, I m only enjoy it

 

my wife intoduced me to idea of trying Bi Fun with our old friend(1st try) Specificly letting him give me a bj. I was supposed to give him a bj too, however he came as he sucked me. I returned the favor, with my wife watching, a few days later. Gotta start somewhere.

 

what peaked me and brought out the bi/Gay in me is my wife ….she got me to wear thong, felt weird so I started to look up men on sites on thongs ..if this is normal, I began to get interested and wife got me watching gay porn together …and turning point came in the locker room in the gym, where I was seduced by an absolute hot looking hunk..he became more then bi partners …we are good friend still now and we hook up as much as possible….he also got seduced my wife …after I brought him home few times ….wife eventually opened up …wife asked if she can date him ..,they hooked up for couple of years, then wife moved on …wth other guys ….
We have done many MFM together …and this will continue based on her partners preference

 

For me it was a curiosity that had always been with me. There was always a fascination with cocks. I tried my best to ignore it for many many years. Finally the desire got the best of me and I thought I would try it just once. Well that was a slippery slope. Once I did suck my first cock I was hooked. It was so natural and gratifying. That was over 15 years ago and since then there have been several. And yes getting mine sucked by a guy is great too. Since we have one we know what makes one feel good. And who knew? Having a guys cock in your ass feels pretty good too.