BiGay dating? Anyone does this ? Past couple of years since becoming more active bi/gay ….admitting myself this is my path …I love to go on dates with my mm hook ups….I find it’s more hot and makes it that special for intimacy party ….,knowing the man I’m making love too…would love to get deeply connected making the mm experience that hot and wild …
Most of my gay sex adventures, in particular the first 21 years, were exclusively anonymous cocksucking in different gay sex venues like bathhouses. But when I finally lost my gay virginity, as a top, rimming and fucking another guy for the first time, the greatest sexual experience of my life that changed everything, I stopped all anonymous MM sex and just started hooking up with local guys in each other's homes using online sites and apps. Most were unfortunately one time encounters, but some were two or three times. But there was one guy who I saw many times, as we liked each other very much. Yes, we had sex every time, but we also went out on dates. He even cooked for me once (he's an awesome cook), which turned out to be a beautiful evening of sex and cuddling and watching TV in each other's arms, the first time I ever did anything like that. Unfortunately, I wasn't completely out to myself yet, not fully accepting the gay side of myself, so I didn't return the romantic feelings he was developing for me, so it didn't continue. Dammit, as I now live as a gay man, with no interest in having sex let alone romance with another woman, and I've even developed romantic crushes on a couple guys, though unrequited, but he's moved to the other side of Canada from me (I think in all honesty because he couldn't find another guy like me in our smaller community of the Niagara region, compared to the larger city of Calgary). I'm not only ready for a lot more sex with guys (I'm on PrEP now), but perhaps even love. I kick myself every day now that I hadn't awoken before I met him, because he was perfect in every way (except perhaps his really thick 10 inch cock was maybe a little bit too big for my ass, as I now want to begin bottoming as well and become a versatile lover). So there's no question, not only is being friends with a guy that you're having sex with important I find, as in friends with benefits, enjoying doing friend kinds of things with each other, but a little bit of dating is also cool. The more you accept the gay side of yourself, even while you still love being with women, the more enjoyable having sex with guys can be. That includes breaking out of our ideas of dating being locked up with straight dating, yourself with a girl. When you begin to relax and try dating with a guy, like going out to dinner together, going to the movies and holding hands, or going dancing together in a club, even a straight club if you live in a more accepting community, you take your same sex experiences to a whole new level of pleasure, because you're living a truth that's inside of you and dying to get out. You don't have to be homosexual to do this, because the bisexual umbrella can definitely include a little more closeness with a guy, without having to be in romantic love with each other. But even that can be quite mindblowing and very exciting. I can't tell you how excited I felt when I discovered, "OMG, I'm actually developing romantic feelings for this guy!" It blew me away, and made me feel really good about myself.
