As I get older, I feel more and more pan sexual. My appreciation for considerate women.keeps increasing. My appreciation for considerate men keeps increasing. My appreciation for considerate non-binary people keeps increasing. I get turned on by all types of considerate and communicative people. Great lovers come in all genders.
Since my wife passed I have had very few encounters with women, still like that very much. But I’m not concerned much with self imposed labels.
I'm not necessarily feeling more gay, but I am feeling very much more bi curious. I don't want any kind of romantic relationship with a man, but I really want to know what it's like to stroke and suck another man's cock. I would be willing to enter into a FWB relationship, but this would only involve manual and oral stimulation of our penises.
yes I 'buried' the man hunger of my teens and twenties when I married 48 years ago and raised a great family.. but burying desire has that 'hidden cookie jar' effect.. now I'm a granddad and wish like hell there was a guy I knew to regularly share activities with - both vertically and horizontally.. interestingly, my wife has been prodding me to find a guy to spend time with.. but I'm fairly certain she doesn't mean 'horizontally' (although she knows I was bi when we met.. I believe she thinks urges disappear, but they most certainly do not.. opportunities to partake diminish; not the hunger..
Hell, a vertical blow job from time to time provided to him would satisfy him, you and her being you never went horizontal.
The last few weeks I find myself glancing at guys crotches more and more. The more bi sex I have the more I want, now I’m looking out in the open instead of just a sex site hoping maybe some guy does the same to me and we can talk. I’m still not brave enough to make the first move but would be receptive to another guy hitting on me.
hell.. if you lived up here near CA/OR border, glance my way and adjust your package.. I'll handle the introductions..
I have been bi since I was 22 years old. As I get older, I am not getting more gay, nor am I getting more straight. I appreciate all genders. I need both women and men in my intimate relationships. Fortunately, that is still being fulfilled.
Older I get all my fantasies involved gay sex even if female involved. I like everything about pussy & cock & desire to give/receive anal sex. So yes as I get older my desires, fantasies, thoughts are more and more towards cock & gay.