My preference is naked women so I can appreciate them literally in the raw and not hiding behind anything
Lingerie. Especially when hidden by a tight fitting short length cocktail dress. It's a lot of fun slowly lowering the zipper in back and sliding the dress off the shoulders, letting it fall to the floor, only to reveal a sexy set of lingerie underneath. Did you know I can unsnap a bra clasp with one hand? Yep, and the surprise look on the face is priceless as the bra joins the dress on the floor. Panties are soon to follow.
Both lingerie and costumes are fun, women get so creative when dressing up knowing that it will all come apart later. I have another idea although it takes quite a lot of time. Body paint. Not with air brushes, that’s so impersonal, I would suggest applying the paint with fingers. Of course, the painting might not be completed,,,
I am a nudist, so seeing a naked woman is nothing big, but if a woman is wearing the right thing, oh hell she is going to get my attention while I am sporting a hard on
I have never seen anything sexier than my wife in sexy lingerie, especially when others are seeing it with me. It shows almost everything, but still has a bit of mystery.
Lingerie is the best, love it, but I have been very peasantry surprised by other types of dress up/costums.
Sometimes lingerie, but my favorite is an oversized T-shirt, and bikini panties underneath. Simple and sexy.
I like them naked, but on vacation, while in public, my wife will wear shorts and a T-shirt with her nipples poking out. That's sexy.
Sometimes simple is better. My gf puts on this one-piece outfit at night that drives me nuts. She says it's really comfy, but the way it hugs her big breasts and nice ass drives me nuts. I'm more of a leg and ass guy, but she wears these white t-shirts that barely fit her breasts and her nipples are hard underneath the shirt. It can turn even me into a breast man. They're fake, but look incredible. She's not the type to wear costumes, but once in a blue moon, she dresses up in leather or latex, with heels and a whip. That might be the lone exception to simplicity.
Does she ever hit you with the whip. I wouldn't much go for that, but in another thread I told about a friend who liked to be paddled naked while other guys watched.
More for show. I'm not into pain - at least not sexually. I discovered that many years ago when I had a dominatrix trample me with her heels and it hurt like hell. I quickly asked her to stop.
Yes, I wouldn't like that either. Pain isn't for me. If it has to be done, I would rather be the one administering the pain–but only light pain, such as in paddling a woman's bare butt. Add in the humiliating factor of having others watch while she is naked and being paddled, and it is fun.
That reminds me. I dated this one girl that asked me to hit her during intercourse. I was afraid to hurt her and lightly slapped her. She said harder. I slapped her slightly harder and she said, "harder you pussy". Then I reared back and slapped pretty hard. I will never forget that moment because it made her so wet and I could feel the difference while inside her. It really helped her get off. That was the only person I've ever met that enjoyed pain. No judgment from me, but it's not for me. I didn't even like doing it to her.