Wife and I agreed that Bi play would be acceptable to us, because a good, safe sexual experience can only be a good sexual experience. She had tried it and told me all about it. I had no issue with her doing it with another like minded woman. She had told me that she found 2 guys sucking each other is exciting and fun to watch. In fact, she would be thrilled to see me and our friend sucking each other. If I were to cheat with another woman it would not be acceptable. How do you and your s/o feel about it
I basically touched on that in another post, but here's the verbose situation: She an I attended a play party. She loved being a snack tray for a while. (Nyotaimori) and when she was cleared off and I wanted to fuck her on the tale she thought it was great. When a guy came up to us and asked if he could join, she said it was fine, but not in her ass. SO he slipped himself into her along with me. She was in heaven. Later that evening, I found her in the pool-house/cabana on her back with a woman sitting on her face. So I walked over and presented myself to the woman who eagerly began sucking me off. When she noticed, she got majorly pissed off. Told me that I was cheating. When I told her that it really wasn't any different than letting another guy fuck er while I was fucking her, she claimed it was TOTALLY different. Her thought process was that she had total agency not only over her body, but as long as we were together over mine as well. That relationship did not last much past that evening.
Lately my partner's expressed an interest in watching Gay porn with me (Straight porn's strictly forbidden). We've ended up mutually masturbating while watching together; turns out she has a pretty strong voyeur streak, and finds Gay sex a turn-on. She's been encouraging me to indulge my proclivity for Gay sex (as long as there are no secrets and all precautions are taken), but not Bisexual sex unless the female is her, or the additional female is Trans (she claims to have absolute zero interest in women and Lesbianism, but doesn't find Trans women threatening). She wants me to find a good male FWB (or two), but promises to go instantly nuclear over any biologic female; no matter how innocent or platonic. Knowing her, it's not an idle threat. Surprisingly watching Gay porn together has really facilitated a more open and in-depth discussion and understanding of each other's sexuality and our dynamic as a couple.
I don't know, I would be wary of that. Given how intensely jealous she would be over a woman, if you end up really enjoying another guy, I can see her going ballistic on that as well. Just enjoy the gay porn and MMF fantasies together, and leave another real guy out of it is my opinion.
