i dont know how other people are, i know a lot of girls are like this, but man i think i can fuck myself better than anyone can.....i mean it is no substitute for sex, but hey no one knows how to do it to me like i can lol peace.
Girls are good for the soft naked body rubbing and kissing and breathing on each other. But I can only get BIG 'O' by myself
While I certainly enjoy jacking myself off, and the control I have of exactly how I do it, I also love it when my wife does it for me. It's totally different, kinda like the way that you can't tickle yourself. It just makes me ache so much more to have her hand stroking my cock and balls. And when she lightly strokes the head of my cock, it drives me wild. It's a feeling I just really can't get when I it do myself. She builds up the tension, and I love not having any control over the speed or anything when I finally blow my load. So I don't have a preference, I like both.
see i have different kinds of orgasm when i do it myself and when i have sex! i like both!! Kitty_Kat
So true. Sadly my wife no longer touches me or allows me to have sex with her so I am only able to masturbate . She sometimes watches me jerk off which is something- but not much!
It's interesting that she watches you jerk off but wants no sex otherwise. Do you put on a show of some kind for her while jerking that she likes to watch? She can watch me any time she wants too.
It's so different I really don't think there's a comparison. I was born and am anatomically male. But identify as gender queer. I think one of the million-billion aspects of that is I have always had a very archetypal female need with regards to sex in that I can't just shove it in and out and cum. The mental component is far more important. It's the same when I masturbate. But far far more during intercourse. So I don't feel my orgasms quite as strongly during intercourse because my attention is divided between what I'm physically feeling, the emotions I'm experiencing, the physical exertion of it, trying to focus on the woman's reactions to what's going on to tip me over the edge and lastly making sure I'm getting her off too. But that doesn't mean it doesn't feel amazing. Just that all those things are part of it well beyond the pure physical sensation of my orgasm. So it feels really good but for a lot reasons including but in addition to my orgasm. Whereas when I'm masturbating, even if it's with someone, I can devote 90% to 100% of my attention to what I'm feeling in my body as I get close and climax. However, when I masturbate, I probably feel complete and utter sexual release/relief once in a blue moon. The kind of relief where as soon as you're finished cumming you're totally relaxed and wiped out and you just suddenly realize you've been cumming but you haven't REALLY cum in a loooong time. But I get that level of relief any time I cum directly from intercourse.
It different. I like to edge. I will edge and walk away without cumming My will take her time in a blowjob and send me shaking over the top. She likes to get the job done. I am the same with her. She always thinks I dont enjoy myself when I am using toys and going down on her. There is nothing more satisfying then giving her multiple orgasms to the big one when she is pushing you away. We will be doing some bondage in the future. I told her she is going to be screaming as we will be going for multiple big “O”.
