Anyone ever watched their wife of g/f with another guy?

My wife is not a size queen, but can take a good size one. That said, She requires the man to be erect and hard. No softee’s for her. She will wear them out or she will tap out.

 

My gf says her lover who is longer but thinner than me is the perfect combination. He gets deep inside her and always leaves a very full load. I stretch her out more, even when she is slick with his cum which feels good and from my part I love feeling her open deep inside,, deeper than I can reach as I grind in as far as I can. Win win!

 

Let me relate a fantasy between my first wife and I that I have been remembering recently. This did not happen beyond the fantasy but I enjoyed remembering it (if you want to read about actual times I shared my current wife, you need to go back further into this thread).

In recent years, somewhere in this section of HF, I posted about a time in college when my 1st wife was lying asleep in my dorm bedroom, naked, and my roommate came in unexpectedly. She was under the covers, but he kept staring at her as she slept, and then finally said to me in a low voice, "Is she naked?!" I mischievously responded something like, 'I don't know,' or, 'Let's see.' and lifted up the blanket just high enough for him to see the whole right side of her body. His eyes got real big. Later she said to me, "When you lifted the cover I think he saw my body."

We had met in college in Japan, and we got married after my student visa ran out, and I switched to a cultural visa. Since I married her and she was a Japanese citizen, there was no way they would deny my visa. After a second year of my living there, she was able to come to America on an exchange program but the closest she could get to my hometown was Eastern New Mexico University. (Our marriage was a secret to the college as that would have gotten her kicked out of the exchange program). So I enrolled there with her. She was a bit of an exhibitionist in the States, in part to my urging. When my roommate met her the first time, she was wearing a thin shirt and no bra, so it wasn't too hard to see her nipples and aureolas, which he did notice. So when she exclaimed that she thought he saw her body, it was in a more teasing way, and I knew she wasn't really offended. In fact, during sex she brought it up from time to time.

A few days later she asked about him. My roommate was not a very outgoing guy, and he was obviously shy with girls. In fact, I never once saw him with a girl. Obviously he was interested in girls, but I doubt he had the courage to strike up a conversation with one. I am fairly certain that he was a virgin. But, he was a freshman, and I was in my third year of college (though I lost my virginity long before college, so that probably doesn't matter). When I mentioned all this to her and told her he was very likely a virgin, she said, 'Oh, I could fix that if you wanted me to.' and then laughed and said she was joking.

But I did bring this up several times with her, before or during foreplay as a what-if scenario.

So this is how I remember the fantasy, as we decided it, generally playing out: Because she was an exchange student, she was high up on the list of room choice in her dorm, and so she was able to get a room to herself (which afforded us a lot of privacy). So the fantasy was that we would invite him up to her room. He was taking some drawing classes so since he was shy with girls, we would offer to allow her to be his model. (On a side note the art department was looking for some models to pose in the nude and she actually asked about that. In the end there were enough that they didn't need her, or maybe she chickened out, I forget). So she would undress and allow him to pose her however he wanted and then draw her. And we would suggest that this being his opportunity, he could focus on whatever body part he wanted, maybe even draw some for me. Obviously he would enjoy it, and so we would invite him back. Each time she would allow him and encourage him to get more touchy feely. We thought that by the 3rd, 4th, or 5th time, he would be fingering her learning about her anatomy, at which point she would pull him close and take his virginity.

I remember talking about that one time, how she would pull him close and they would start kissing, and I asked her, what about a condom? (birth control pills were not very common in Japan at that time, because the Japanese thought they were risky and the health ministry recommended them only for women with irregular cycles or other similar health needs, so we always used a condom unless it was close to, or during, her period.) She answered, "Well, its his first time and he should understand the pleasure of a woman fully." To which I responded that maybe we better go to the campus infirmary and get her some birth control pills, which actually, until that moment did not occur to me---and we did just that, so that I was able to enjoy her the rest of the school year without a condom.

I had also asked her on another occaision, Since he may never have another girl, how many times would you let him do it? "Well if its his only chance, at least 3 or 4 times. To give him a lifetime of memory." To which I told her, "So let's say he's had you several times in the room (we had always suggested I was in her room too.), and then you come to meet me in my dorm, but I am not there, and he would probably want to have you again. What would happen?" "That would be his chance to have me alone. Then he could really experience passion. You should give us an hour at least."

Of course, nothing more actually happened with him after I lifted up the blanket. Other than when we were all in my dorm room, I would see him checking her out, I assume he was trying to picture all the curves and colors and the hair that he saw a quick flash of, sometimes aided by the obvious fact that she had no bra on under her t-shirt or sheer blouse--and on chilly spring days no less.

 

My lady (gf of 14 years) gets 11" numerous times during the year. Our story started with her bringing us another girl to play with, and then I just had to return the favor. I was surprised to learn how arousing it is to see her getting pleasured out of her mind by some other man, or men.

 

It was always something which turned me on but reality proved even better

 

This was a fantasy I shared with my wife. Which lead to role play, which led her to making the comment. “I’ll fuck another guy if you really want me too, if that’s your fantasy I’ll do it for you”. I took some time but we did find someone eventually a few. It was an incredibly erotic experience but honestly was a bit tough the first time with a big mixed bag of emotions. Those days are long gone but great memories that I still think about

 

That first time can be very intense. When he first enters her and when he and she cum

 

I have with my ex partner and my freind years ago totally unplanned but was really hot watching her play with another cock and mine and enjoying it obviously happened because we had a few drinks. I’d love meet a woman that is as experimental as me sex wise so much I’d like to try. What would be your best sex experience you’d like try?

 

What made it easy for us was that just 2 days before, I had brought home a bi girl to play with.... just experimenting because he had told me that he liked to watch 2 girls get it on. And we did, and then I got to watch him fuck another girl first. I'm certain that that made a huge difference for both of us, because we were (and are) very much in love with each other. And so before that I had never even thought about having sex with any other guy, but now it's just normal for us to fuck other friends, guys for me and girls for him.

 

Any type of sexual connection with others outside of the two of you brings its own gratification and once you get into it great things can happen, the problem lies with many couples that think "marriage" locks-in your partner as being the "only one" to have the pleasure of playing with that partner. Open - up everyone and enjoy the experience of "sharing" you'll be amazed at how fruitful it is and how our bodies are easily capable of this type combination adding to your life experience.

 

That's pretty cool
I'm curious about whether those friends were already in your circle of friends or they are now friends since or because you enjoy sex. And are you always together or do you both do sex one-to-one with another?

 

4 of the guys that fuck me were my friends, 1 other was my baby's friend, and the other 3 guys fucked me the same day that we met. But even those 3 guys were 'screened' by my baby before they ever even knew who I was.

I'm not certain of your last question, but our fuckbuddies (including 2 girls) live between Virginia and Florida, and so we just meet several times a year. My baby and I live together and we are never really apart. Several years ago I did spend a night alone with our first 2 fuckbuddies (separate nights) and my baby did that once with one of our girlfriends. But except for those times we're always together and watching each other fucking someone else. And I love that, I love to watch him fuck another girl and I love for him to watch another guy (or guys) fuck me.

 

Thank you @LenaSilk

You answered my second question which was about whether you fuck guys on your own, without your 'baby'. Seems to be a thing of the past now, but good to read of a couple where each enjoys and supports their partner doing that which they enjoy/need.

I may be too far away but if your ever in the UK and would like a photoshoot or video shoot PM me please, to discuss.

I have photographed over 20 women in various stages of nudity and arousal and usually switch to video as they approach their orgasm. And with one, I videoed her with her BF. Not sure whether it was the camera or my presence but it was extra exciting for them both.

 

But watching her getting fucked is the thing. Several other men pulling a train on her is also a major turn-on, even if I don't see it all. Like if they're doing her in another room and I only get to listen.

Probably some of both? First MFM we did, she noticed me filming him fucking her on my cell cam, and she very obviously had an orgasm a few seconds later.[/QUOTE]

 

Can't edit my comment above because this website is driving me fucking crazy with having to login again for everything.

What I meant to say is when "Several of us" are doing a train on her. I cannot be an uninvolved party, ever, and she doesn't want me to be uninvolved. She always wants me in the middle of it, because that's what it's all about with us. Like you said Bazz888, "Seems to be a thing of the past now", but not with us.