I had my awakening in my 50s. Started buying cock rings and a few toys. I introduced them to my wife slowly. It wasn't until I was 56 or 57 I bought a prostate massager. It was great but as most of them are, they are meant to be used and not worn. I branched out and bought a couple small plugs. Then some larger ones, and eventually a rubber dildo with suction cup. I am working slowly to introduce them to my wife because I dont believe she knows my true love of anal. To conclude my favourite in my collection is a silicone cock and ball ring strap with a stainless steel butt plug I wear out constantly, to work or other events.
It’s feels really good at first, as it is really tight. But as you go it will loosen up and the sensation will get less. It is very erotic for sure.
I didn't even answer my own question. A wonderful woman( 20 yrs older) I met when I was a Bartender introduced me to anal pleasure. When she went from sucking my cock , she continued on to sucking my balls, then eating and fingering my asshole. There was no looking back. When I wanted to play with my wifes ass, she asked me how I would like something poking in my ass. She was surprised when I said YES! , then she proceeded to slide her hard white plastic vibrator up my ass. Many vibrators, buttplugs and dildos have happily visited since.
Times have changed. Anal used to be taboo and now it seems like it isn't a big deal. When I was younger, it was difficult to find a girl wanting to try anal. My first experience was with a gf that I inserted my finger into her ass while we had sex. She really didn't enjoy it. I really wanted to put my cock in her ass, but she said, no way. She thought my cock was too big. She said how you like it if I put my finger in you? At the time I was like no thanks. Then she did it while giving me a bj and I thought it was amazing. I've loved it ever since. My first time having anal intercourse was with a girl I met at work. Before I even had vaginal sex with her, we tried anal. I couldn't believe that she was open to it. She had never done it before and my last gf thought I was too big for her. Anyway, this girl was remarkably relaxed and I went all the way in her. She took it like a champ and it was such a turn-on. Then we had vaginal intercourse and there was no going back to anal for her. She would play with my ass sometimes using her finger. I asked her if she would consider pegging me and said sure. We never tried it though. I ended up marrying a different girl. One night while we were drunk in LA on vacation, I asked my ex wife what she thought of pegging and she said maybe. We went to the Hustler store down the road, but we didn't buy a strapon for some reason I can't remember. It was until several years later that I tried pegging with a pro domme. It was amazing. Nowadays it seems like everyone is eating ass or having anal sex like it's just regular intercourse. Progress I guess.