What is your wifes opinion about bi sex? I brought up the topic by telling her that I wouldn't object if she played around with another woman. She believed that I would only want that with the hopes of being involved and responded by saying how she would love to see me sucking a cock and taking a messy load of cum in my mouth. It was years later when that option presented itself. Unfortuately for me, I never got to be involved with her and other woman, but she has watched me with a friend many times and has expressed her pleasure about it. Does your wife know and approve of your bi encounters:
I was very fortunate in that my wife wasn’t shy about her sexual interest in women, there is a reason why most men want to see two women together, it is great. But my wife’s main interest was having two men ravish and share her. That also worked out well for me, being bi long before we met. She loved directing the action after she felt satisfied.
My wife was supportive but we have not gone outside our marriage if we did it would be to share some one
Not sure we will I think she likes the fantasy but when it gets a little to real it gets clear she is not ready. It’s not a big deal would be fun but Is what it is
My wonderful wife is good with it, we have gone to parties where there is a lot of bi stuff going on, she has tried it, but not her thing, she’s watched guys suck me and me them, and then there’s our 3sum friend, that we suck each other during our 3 sums with my wonderful wife, all is fun and messy.
She knows I'm Bi, and thinks I need cock to be sexually fulfilled. The subtext is that she hasn't the time, interest, or energy to do it herself. She disapproves of me simply having a fuck buddy; wanting me instead to have some sort of deep meaningful spiritual bond (but not too deep; she knows I tend towards being heteroromantic; female playmates are strictly forbidden), and wants it to be someone in the community, whose comings and goings won't attract the attention of the Condo Karens. So far, that's been an unattainably high standard. As much as I'd like a deep friendship, I'd be happy with an activity partner; I consider everyone in my Tai chi group "friends", we're very kind to one another, but the only thing we do together is Tai chi; then we go our separate ways.
Wow, she set the bar pretty high for you! I've had women try to put me on lockdown like this and I guess it's better than nothing but it really does limit what you can do and who you can do it with. I hope this works out for you!
I am extremely lucky with my wife. She understands that my friend gives me something that she can't and is not upset about it. She was the one who suggested that I try having sex with another guy. I would be divorced in a heartbeat if I were to have sex with another woman though. My friend is usually over at least once a week. Sometimes besides having sex we might watch some sports or auto racing, especially IRL, and have a beer or two. It is just sex with a friend. We don't kiss or cuddle, I do that with the wife. She has met him but she doesn't want to be there when we are having sex. With our work schedules I usually have 2 or 3 hours a day where he can over. My wife sometimes asks me questions about it. What position do we use, how long we last, etc. She did ask me once to take a video of him fucking me. I did and when she watched it she asked a few questions. My wife and I still have sex several times a week and we both enjoy it. She has stated that she has no desire to have sex with another woman, so I'm the only bi person in our marriage.
