Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

Yes!

 

I share with my wife. We enjoy acting out some of the fantasies. Alot of the scenarios involve mfm situations, we are thinking of looking for a third in the future.

 

We talked about her fantasies for a long time before acting them out. It was her sex talk with her girlfriends, that lead her to a man to fulfill her fantasy.

 

I am the one that starts the conversations about a third person. But, my wife had to attend an over night certification class and was approached by an attractive man. When I asked her if she saw anyone she like while there and to my surprise she said yes! This is the first time she has ever been approached by someone and was attracted to them! We have looked for him at events that we attend that correspond with the certification she obtained but have been unsuccessful at finding him.

 

Sounds like you are on track. Even though my girlfriend is the one who told me she wanted to try another man, we were over a year before she did it. A couple of near but not all the way. Hope your first experience works out for you. My girl always referred to her first other man was the best, maybe because it was new or he was that good.

 

Me and an old friend from school are often talking about what we like, we do still have a good wank Infront of each other watching porn as well