My favorite sex memories almost all involve either being seen or a strong risk of being seen…. Hotels with curtains open, backyard in the city, front yard rural, etc My shy wife always would say that she had no idea someone was (or could be) watching. (Bullshit!) I would so love same room vacation sex with another couple. I can picture my wife starting with the idea that we’re under the covers and no one can see. But once the other couple got busy too and their covers were off my wife would be so horny. It would be amazing to watch another couple while they watch us!
One of the things we did in our process of entering the lifestyle was flashing truckers on the straight stretches of interstates. It started with Lucy pulling her large breasts out while hiding behind sunglasses, and I played with her nipples as we slo-o-o-o-owly passed trucks on their left. Eventually this evolved into playing with her pussy, and then using a dildo on herself at night with the dome light on and this time pacing the truck so they could watch it slide in and out. I was shocked she wanted to do this since toys don't do much for her, but she wanted to be watched. We stopped doing this once we had our first threesome.
I have had two girlfriends who enjoyed playing games like that with the truckers. One would lie down in the front seat with her business end facing the driver and show them everything she had. The view was so explicit, I'm surprised they didn't run off the road.
When my first wife Dana was 16, her OBGYN retired and was replaced by a man she thought to be in his early 50s. She said she thought he looked like Treat Williams, which didn't bother her a bit. She said he was always professional, but she enjoyed trying to get his attention, even with a nurse there. She got very wet during her first visit with him and imagining him noticing only made her wetter. During her next appointment with him, he found her completely shaven smooth except for a tiny little tuft right above her clit. During one visit the nurse gave her a grin, glancing at the doctor and nodding her understanding. He was still her doctor when we met 4 years later, and she shared her little game with me after she learned such things turned me on. Until we moved from the area a few years later, she would always make her appointments first thing in the morning and would ask me to fuck her with a condom right before she left. She loved imagining what he thought and wanted to look aroused without being messy. For three years I dreamed about a different story after her appointments. Oh, well. She said the game was the only thing that made going to those appointments tolerable.
Good question. Is it exhibitionism if everyone is naked? I can see it seeming so for some since not all people are built the same. Perhaps they're exhibiting what they have, but when you think about it, it isn't very different than a room full of clothed people with some looking sharper than others.
In the defined psychological sense of the term, no. Exhibitionists create a sexually charged atmosphere exposing themselves to unsuspecting people. It's the shock and awe scenario that exhibitionists are drawn to. Nudists are sans clothing in a social environment among likewise people. It is the thought of interacting without the restriction of clothing while comfortable their complete body is on display that nudists enjoy.
I agree! I do think nudist have an exhibitionistic aspect to their behavior. This difference is that the nudist is in a consenting environment with other nudists. I’m not saying ALL nudists enjoy showing their bodies to other nudists. But I believe there is a significant percentage! I know a nude beach/club has great appeal to the aspects of my personality that are part exhibitionistic, part voyeur and part candaulistic. even my sexually repressed wife has been turned on by the environment. She rationalized it as “just a sexy environment.”
This is such a true observation. As much as those who engage in social nudity want to separate nudity from sex there is still that exhibitionistic / voyeur aspect that happens when people remove their clothing.