Being bisexual or gay in today's MAGA society.........

Man, would I LOVE to see Congress FINALLY grow a set of balls (along with a backbone!) and fucking just hit that orange-headed asshole with EVERYTHING....INCLUDING the KITCHEN SINK!

Last night, Jimmy Kimmewl was talking about Trump's upcoming medical exam:

"......let's see how Donald Trump likes having HIS balls squeezed for a change......"

(Shit, the audience LOVED that one!)

You know how fucking STUPID you gotta be, to think you are powerful enough to change people's sexuality?

His fucking ignorance knows now limits............

 

As you might recall, we were - and still are - stupid enough to think that we can cure homosexuality. Still arrogant enough to think that they have the right to fuck with someone's right to self-determination. You must keep in mind that all of this lunacy isn't just him - it's him and the people who mindlessly follows him and praises his every word as if it's gospel. And some who are willing to kill anyone who isn't like them and in the name of God. Insane enough to believe that the US can move forward by going backwards about sixty years and... McCarthy. Stupid enough to see that the president is way too cozy with Putin and Russia. Way too cozy but his minions think this is okay. Crazy enough to believe that if the law doesn't apply to their master, it doesn't apply to them, either.

Transgenderism is the new hot-button topic that this... re-emerging Moral Minority is pitching a bitch about and regarding "men" participating in women's sports. My understanding is that if you go through the whole protocol to change your gender from male to female, you're officially female. Biologically, though, the DNA says, "This is a male..." and while you can change the body surgically and with the introduction of hormones, you cannot change anyone's DNA. Given this, I'm thinking the MAGA cult has better and more pressing things to worry about other than homosexuals...

 

KD23:

Another excellent response.

Right now, we are so deep in the quicksand (and sinking fast) that many are wondering if we will ever to be able to pull ourselves out to safety.

One thing that really does scare me is his "up the butt" friendship with Putin; here, indeed, you have an unholy alliance, one that reeks with the stench of hell itself.

These two maniacs are a menace to the entire free world; and, just as the case with Trump, Putin is obviously ABOVE and BEYOND the law that "common" people are subject to.

As with Trump, people are too afraid of this asshole to stand up to him; and, of course, you and I both know all about Russia's stance on gays and gay rights..........

 

I'm sure that I don't live in Russia.

 

Same here.

Regarding gays, Russia and most of the Middle East are places where anyone gay or bi should steer of, if wishing to visit from abroad.

I've heard a lot of horror stories and the persecution of those not straight in these parts of the world.......despicable that such Middle Ages shit still goes on today in the 21st century; sadly, some things will never change............

 

Go do some deep reading on homosexuality and find out the now-ancient cultures where homosexuality flourished until religious strictures not only promised death to those who violated what would become Sharia law, many executions of people who were even suspected of being homosexual took place and... the area we call the Middle East was among the cultures that had allowable homosexuality. We think about the Romans and Greeks but stuff I read had Japan as one of the oldest cultures along with "Arab" cultures and with reports of rampant homosexual practices on the African continent and way before the Romans and Greeks were reported to be diddling the fellas

Religious law today says if you're homosexual, you die and in certain places, the ancient method of execution - death by stoning - is still the method of execution today and it's rather simple: Get caught being homosexual and that's your ass... permanently. The world has been "pitching a bitch" about this inhumane form of execution and about the killing of homosexuals in the first place. In 2019, two men in Iran were hanged for consensual same-sex activity but, yeah, there are plenty of global horror stories to be sampled and held up as examples of what should - or will - happen to you if you're found to be engaging in same-sex activities and it doesn't matter if you're male or female. I seem to recall reports out of that part of the world where there was talk of stoning a woman to death for being discovered to be a lesbian - but I don't remember when and where that happened or if she was executed - but the story was out there.

As such, if you're traveling anywhere outside of the United States, um, don't get caught. I remember going on a cruise to Jamaica with my lady and her family and friends of her family and because she'd been there many times with her last boyfriend, she was strongly warning me not to let any of the locals know that I'm bisexual because Jamaicans were violently homophobic and lethally so. I had heard the same thing many, many years ago but there were Jamaicans I knew - male and female - who said that while there were those who were homophobic, um, there were those who weren't so much and, really, no different than things here at home and when having to face homophobes and, at the time, I'd put it out of my mind because I hadn't foreseen going to Jamaica - ever. Decades later, I step off of a cruise ship onto Jamaican soil - with my lady still talking about me watching my back and my ass and... I put her warning out of my mind because the only way some super-homophobes would find out that I was bisexual would be if I - or she - told them that I was.

But these are the kinds of stories that exist almost everywhere in the world; some are true, and some are stories crafted to keep people literally scared straight. Russia has been in the press here of late raising hell about homosexuality and in their usual Russian fashion by Putin but I don't recall hearing of any reports of homosexuals being jailed or executed in Russia but that's fine because there is no reason on the planet for me to have to be in Russia so, as such, I'm not worried about it; I have enough shit to worry about here at home.

And I'm still bisexual, which is the whole point, isn't it?

 

KD23:

A sobering, thought-inducing response, one that indeed makes you stop and think.

I had no idea that Jamaica was so vehemently homophobic; I would imagine Haiti is as homophobic, or worse.

I think you are wise to advise both gays and bisexuals about traveling out of the country; you do NOT want to "run scared", BUT, by the SAME token, you do not want to put yourself in harm's way, especially when you are NOT here in the States.......it's better to be SAFE than SORRY and these days, especially with everything going apeshit, you simply do NOT know.

My only interests in Russia was (in years past) its public transport system, classical architecture, and folk music.

As to anything else, nothing at all that interests me, in particular politics and the like.

Again, I think it is wise when traveling overseas (if you are gay or bisexual) is to simply play it cool and to keep a low profile, and DO NOT let your guard down, even for a moment.....................

 

I would suppose that Jamaicans are no more vehemently homophobic than Black American men are reported to be and at last check, um, I'm not homophobic and have never been but I heard this way the fuck back when I was growing up and, oh, yeah, having sex with Black American males and some who were being taught to be homophobic but, ah, it's hard to be a force for homophobia when you already know how good it is to have sex with a guy - and then, most people are homophobic because they were, indeed, taught to be homophobic and getting beaten over the head with the Old Testament.

To me, it's just common sense to be aware of the fact that you're not at home and there are things you can do here that you cannot do there so don't even think about doing them if you value your life and/or freedom. Go, have fun, and behave yourself and above all else, be safe. Duh, right? Right. Is Haiti rabidly homophobic? As I seem to recall, the HIV virus was first discovered in the jungles of Haiti and sparking jokes about what Haitian dude was out there fucking monkeys when it seems that the HIV virus jumped species and probably easily since humans and our simian cousins share a lot of the same DNA. So, lets recap: Homophobic Jamaicans, Black American males, Haitians, Hispanics, Middle Eastern and Indian ethnicities and... are you seeing a pattern here?

Did you notice that I didn't mention Caucasians in any part of the world? Yet and still, the first time I ran into what could be called homophobia was with a white dude who walked into the shower room at the YMCA and announced that if there were any faggots in the shower room, they should leave now or get their ass kicked because God told him to be homophobic. The "moral" of this story was that there was one of him... and about nine or ten of us other guys trying to get showered and looking at him like he'd lost his fucking mind. He looked at us looking at him and... left the shower room, muttering some shit about showering at home so he didn't have to shower with a bunch of faggots and, oddly - and as far as I knew - only myself and one other guy I knew weren't exactly straight - and he was white.

Confusing, huh? I had thought so, too, while laughing at the notion that all Black men were homophobia and when I cut my bisexual teeth on having sex with Black males and more white males than Black males (but not by some kind of wide margin so to speak) and for me, my sex life was pretty fucking good because I could have sex with guys and girls and it was quite true that if a girl didn't want to, there was always a guy who did... and this defied this so-called ethnic homophobia but, yeah, the bible has some pretty harsh shit to say about being homosexual and this harsh shit gets taught to us and now, you have homophobes out there in the world who are homophobic because they were told and taught to be homophobic. Is it homophobia if/when you have a bad sexual experience with a guy and now, you'd rather eat shit and die before doing something like that again?

No, but people act like it gives someone homophobia and it does give you some insight on how... insane we can really be about some shit and when I figured it out, I admit to having been shocked because I'm trying to figure out how a guy can say that he's homophobic but he's giving me a blowjob; I learned to understand how a guy could "hate" himself because he liked to have sex with guys even though he also knew that he shouldn't be - we call this "internalized homo- or biphobia" today and, welp, I like to think I'm fairly smart so I'm thinking that this isn't really a phobia but someone experiencing a bit of internalized angst because he does enjoy something that he was told to never do, let alone enjoy it. Mad at himself? Okay. Homophobic? I don't think so and more so when I've actually had guys confuse the shit out of me by telling me that they hated that they liked what we were doing but, wait, um, weren't you the one who asked/suggested that we should do this?

And my perpetually curious mind wanted to know, basically, what the fuck was up with this? I would also learn that real, true homophobes don't go around telling everyone that they're homophobic but in true human fashion, if one is homophobic, then aren't all homophobic? No but we tend to want to believe the perception over the truth (and something else I won't ever really understand). Our country is currently caught up in the grip of transphobia and the word was probably coined by someone who, for whatever reason made sense to them, didn't believe that no one should be allowed to change their gender and, specifically, men should not ever transform themselves into women so, hmm, a phobia based on personal belief? A misinterpretation of the biblical law of the Christian Old Testament that speaks out against homosexuality as a mortal sin? Does transforming yourself physically, emotionally and even mentally from male to female constitute homosexuality? Immoral? Illegal? Apparently, this seems to be the case... and where are the people pitching a bitch about the females who transform themselves into men because they believe, right down to the very core of themselves, that they should have been born male and not female... or vice versa.

Then consider that phobias are officially defined as irrational fears and, well, okay... humans. Go figure. With all this shit going on with us, it makes any political concerns about MAGA insignificant and like I've been saying, there's isn't a goddamned thing MAGAs can do about me or anyone else being bi- or homosexual. Let them come; let them accuse without proof that a crime has been committed because I'm bisexual... and like I'd admit it to a bunch of religious fanatics to begin with. This is just some paranoid bullshit coming from a man who, if we let him keep getting away with defying the law, wants to get rid of anyone who'd dare to oppose his ruination of America and, yup, that would be all of the country's homosexuals should he succeed in repealing their right to marry.

To understand this, you have to ask yourself why and then ask who benefits from this - then ask yourself if you're going to cower in fear before him and, nope, not happening here. Ever.

 

KD23:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA++++++++++++++++

 

It's not rocket science.

 

Yeah, you and I BOTH know this......too many, sadly, cannot grasp even this simple concept..........

 

Papa:

I would indeed truly pity the "shrink" that ever had Trump on his couch; I think even he would be light-years beyond disgusted at the vast amount of wretched, toxic, reeking refuse that crams his orange-tinged cranium to the maximum.

With world financial markets in chaos, and families struggling to make ends meet (not to mention the bloodshed of ongoing wars that never seem to end) our pompous "DGP" (Degenerate Great Pumpkin) would have more pressing issues to deal with, than obcessing over the sexualities of Americans.

Geeze, this shit even puts the cheapest tabloid rags to shame.......

 

Perhaps the most sickening aspect of all this Trump shit is how nauseatingly disgusting (and totally embarrassing) it is to see his vast legions of butt-kissing, boot-licking, slobbering minions literally tongue-bathe him all over .

(Jimmy Kimmel had a great segment last night, showcasing all of Trump's biggest butt-kissers, grovelers, and boot-lickers, and which one got to coveted "Groveler Of The Week award"?; that honor went to George Santos! (animation had Trump dropping his pants and Santos kissing his fat ass with a huge smile on his face!)

Clips last evening showed Trump seemingly obscessed with taking showers; Jimmy commented:

"With all of his body-licking grovelers all over him, he'll NEVER need to take a shower, with all the tongue-baths he gets from his ass-kissing minions! (PLEASE help me knock THAT nauseating image out of me head!)

All kidding aside, it is beyond sickening to see how Trump's brainwashed followers grovel at his feet while kissing his ass, and sending out a message that causes decent Americans everywhere to cringe.

Damn, what I think we had under Obama and Biden...........and have now lost......

 

Closeted or repressed homo- or even bisexual; back in the day, I was surrounded by guys who made a lot of noise against same-sex shit with other guys while in public but in private? Whole different story when it's just me and him and he's tap-dancing around trying to figure out how he can ask if he can suck my dick or if I'd be interested in fucking him. Or it's a guy I already know is down with it all, he's horny, his lady ain't giving him any but he knows that the two of us can make some noise - and after we do, he's back in public and decrying male homosexuality and like a good little follower should do.

As mentioned, the MAGA idiots are targeting transgenders and that, for some reason, includes drag queens and guys who may or may not be gay but true entertainers, but you can't explain such truths to fanatics who have been indoctrinated to believe a lie. Yep, we often hear of some Republican somewhere who got busted with an escort, cheating on his wife or, yeah, he had a secret boyfriend on the side and they wound up resigning or being prosecuted and removed from their office because we hold our political leaders to a higher standard of behavior which, these days, doesn't mean a hill of beans because they've always seen themselves as being exempt from the things that would put you and I in a prison cell.

@GG57, you never know how good you had it until you don't have it any longer...

 

KD23:

My late mother always said the same thing:

"You don't know what a good thing you have until you don't have it anymore".

Truer words never spoken.

I have a framed photo of Obama (courtesy of a local Sunday paper), from back in 2008; he is saying:

"Change has come."

Indeed....."change had come".....but a change that was like a breath of fresh air, blowing across the nation.

That Obama was young, dynamic, and "down to earth" indeed made him one our best Presidents.......how much we miss his....his ideals......and leadership.......today in 2025.....

 

When I was growing up and we'd visit with my mom's father, he'd often go off if he even heard the word "Republican" and for a man who was devout and an upstanding deacon in his church, man - I learned some words that I was dared to never repeat! I'd always been told that "hate" is a strong and powerful word that one should never use to voice their dislike of someone or something... but this man hated Republicans with a passion I'd never seen before - or since. You mention the GOP around him at your own peril.

On my father's side, my grandparents weren't as rabid in their hatred of Republicans but my cousin got grounded for a month for defending something a Republican did that was going to hurt working people and both sets of grandparents went as far to let me know that if I ever became a Republican, they'd disown me and my parents let me know that they were not joking or playing around. As I reached 18 and was now a legal adult and eligible to vote, there was no way in hell that I was going to be a Republican, not because my whole family was against the GOP but I could see that, with a couple of exceptions, Republicans didn't have our best interests at heart and were always doing shit that made rich people richer and oppressed everyone who wasn't white and rich.

And they're still doing it and with zero regard for the peoples of America and the laws under which we all live under and with a self-serving fascist and possible Russian drone sitting in the White House.

 

KD23:

Excellent post; you indeed come from a a VERY strong family, for certain!

My late brother was councilman (D) for over 30 years; back then, virtually all of my family was VERY staunchly Democrat, as was my community.

Today, only myself, one niece, and my cousins are still 100% Democrat.

My sister-in-law and her two (grown) children are now solid Republicans (safe to say, that when I DO talk to them every once in awhile, politics is a subject I steer clear of!)

Anyway, Mom remained a loyal Democrat to her dying day; and yours truly is following her lead.

How much do you want to bet that that even those who were not 100% "gung ho" about Obama and Biden would have NO issue in seeing them back in office again.

Both Obama and Biden were GENTLEMEN; they had both HUMILITY and HONESTY.

Sadly, our current "leader" has neither quality, nor will he ever.........

 

Way back when, when Trump was just a pompous, arrogant bully of a billionaire, and Obama was in the White House, NO ONE could have ever foreseen the day when America would be so vastly divided, nor so fraught with monumental financial woes.

What we all took for granted.......we were all guilty of being far too complacent......

 

When he said that he was going to run in the next election - and all that shit he was talking - we should have paid attention then and we didn't. We... didn't exactly start to panic until he waved COVID-19 off like it was no big deal and refused to believe the reports that said China was responsible for letting a bioweapon out into the world - and then, let over 100,000 Americans die because he didn't take COVID serious until he came down with it - but it was too late to get a serious jump on the virus due to his meddling and special version of false news. Then, all the shit that he got impeached twice for all but guaranteed a victory for Joe Biden and when Joe wiped the political floor with him, we saw the lengths he was prepared to go in order to never leave office.

All the criminal charges he was dodging as POTUS came to roost and America was 99.99% sure that we weren't going to see Donald Trump any time soon once he was convicted of a felony and a slew of other felonious charges then, for some reason that still doesn't make sense to me, all of the prosecution cases were dropped so the fucker could continue his campaign; in the meantime, SCOTUS ruled that a president couldn't be charged with any crimes even after he's left office and, what the fuck, SCOTUS? Oh, that's right - he bought them and he likely paid off those prosecutors not to put him in prison so he could carry out his plan to ruin America and make RWAs even richer.

No one foresaw Joe giving up his campaign when he did and, personally, I thought there was something fishy about that and felt that he bailed on his campaign so that Kamala could get a shot at the presidency which, if true, was rather brilliant because there was no one on the planet who didn't think she could and would wipe the floor with him... and we're still trying to figure out what the fuck happened that she didn't. Meanwhile, he's lying his ass off about his involvement with Project 2025 and that it was a blueprint to make him king while destroying everything that made us America so he and his cronies could get richer and make America white again and like it was in the 1950s. The fucked-up part is that he told us what he was going to do and we didn't believe him until he started executing his plans and fucking all kinds of shit up and the fucking Republicans in Congress were gleefully letting him do it while his MAGA cultist were cumming all over themselves because he was going to make white right again and they'd once more hold sway over all that makes America the country it's been... until, just like he did the last time he was in office, he fucked over all of the GOP and MAGA assholes over and laughing his ass off because he lied his ass off to them and they believed him.

Again. And Kamala Harris has been reported saying, "I told y'all, didn't I? Bet you wish you had put me in the White House, huh?" We weren't being complacent; we got played by a master con artist and now we are regretting that he's not sitting in a prison cell somewhere. Still trying to figure out how someone who was found guilty of election tampering in several states was allowed to keep running for president.