Men & Sex Over 60 Poll

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  1. James Ankar

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    A poll for Men 60+

    What age are you?
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced?
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi?
    Are you sexually active?

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex?
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why?
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger?
    Is sex less enjoyable now?

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate?
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate?
    Is masturbation important for you?
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]?
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    Do you use porn? What?
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know?
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now?
    Do you cum as easily?
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same?
    Which do you prefer?
     
  2. James Ankar

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    A poll for Men 60+
    My responses

    What age are you? 76
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent Less frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? My partner is less active
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Not really
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Not at all

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Many reasons - it is intensely enjoyable, it makes me feel good and positive about myself, because it has known health benefits
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes, it is natural and beneficial in many ways
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? I rarely masturbate to cum quickly preferring to get there slowly and savour the journey but achieving an intense orgasm is very important
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? As often as possible but at least twice a week - a recommended minimum for prostate health
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? More than when I was in my 50's - I am more frequently aroused and have more time/space
    Has your masturbation changed? How? It's more relaxed but I masturbate as always did
    Is it more or less enjoyable? Different rather than more or less enjoyable and in recent years my orgasms have been stronger
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? If I'm honest, arousal and erection is not as spontaneous but I always cum
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Ejaculation, inevitably, is not as profuse but orgasm can be more powerful than it was a decade ago
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? I would find talking about it difficult [though not to a doctor] but I feel very comfortable about it
    Do you use porn? What? Yes - vintage pinups and genuine videos of women masturbating
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes she knows, is happy that I do and reminds and encourages me to do so regularly both masturbating with her and when alone
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Ejaculation has weakened sadly
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Masturbate more but often together
    Which do you prefer? Both are equally important
     
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  3. Up-Bob

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    What age are you? 67
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship,Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Less with my wife
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Yes… because I have sex with men and other women besides my wife
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? More enjoyable

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Because it feels good
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? It depends on how much time I have
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? 2-3 times a day every day
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? More
    Has your masturbation changed? How? Just has
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More enjoyable
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Not always
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? Not at all
    Do you use porn? What? Yes.. teen grannies, trans and gay grandpa
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Sometimes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened it’s different
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? About the same
    Which do you prefer? Both
     
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  5. Xyzlobomb

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    What age are you? 61
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent More frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Have more time now. With a partner who enjoys sex.
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Yes can take more time and no work or kids to get in way.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Has always been interested in sex
    Is sex less enjoyable now? No

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? I enjoy it
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? Both equally important
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? 2 or 3 times a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? More often
    Has your masturbation changed? Yes How? I can take more time and wife has no problem if she catches me.
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Yes Is achieving orgasm more difficult? No but it can take more time.
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? No Why?
    Do you use porn? Yes What? I read erotica stories like on literotica
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Knows I watch/read porn but doesn't ask me about it.
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? She has no problem with me masturbating.

    Erectile & other Issues some prostate issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No
    Do you cum as easily? No
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Weakened
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Roughly the same
    Which do you prefer? Depends on my mood.
     
  6. straightma1e

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    What age are you? 73
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent - Less frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Because I have to use women other than my spouse
    Has sex changed in later years? Yes If so, how and why? How is being non monogamous. Why is due to spouse no longer having sex.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Not for me

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why? N/A
    Why do you masturbate? It feels good
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? The pleasure
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? At least weekly, usually more often
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? Less
    Has your masturbation changed? Yes How? I take more time to enjoy it.
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Yes Is achieving orgasm more difficult? No
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Depends on how I react to the stimulation
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? No Why? N/A
    Do you use porn? Yes What? It's a great motivator.
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? N/A

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Yes, it's changed as in stronger
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? I masturbate more than have sex
    Which do you prefer? Either or. I consider both as having sex and enjoy either the same.
     
  7. GregS

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    What age are you? 73
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi
    Are you sexually active? Very much so

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes with wife or boyfriend separately
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent About the same
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Sex with wife is less but now having sex with my friend
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Wife is less interested
    Is sex less enjoyable now? A little bit with the wife but very enjoyable with my friend.

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Very seldom
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Either wife doesn't want to or friend not around
    Is masturbation important for you? Nope
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? A lot less
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable? About the same
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Yes, no
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Usually less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? No
    Do you use porn? What? Sometimes, bisexuality mmf
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Depends on the activity
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Again it depends on the activity
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? About the same Have sex more
    Which do you prefer? Having sex
     
  8. Indybanker1946

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    What age are you? 78
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent Less
    If it is less or more frequent, why? I'm 78
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? No
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? No
    Is sex less enjoyable now? No

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? No
    If no, why? I'd rather fuck
    Why do you masturbate?
    Is masturbation important for you?
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]?
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    Do you use porn? What?
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know?
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Almost
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Orgasm more intense, less ejaculate
    Do you masturbate more than ha
     
  9. Tom Preston

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    A poll for Men 60+
    Hi, I have just joined Hip Forums and found my way here and thought this would be an interesting topic to start with.
    Here are my answers

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    I am a straight male, married, age 75, living in the UK and, YES, I am sexually active both with my partner and with myself

    2
    I do have sex with my partner but no where near as often as we did up until about ten years ago for a combination of reasons and my wife is less interested than I am, sadly but sex (all forms) is no less enjoyable than in my younger days. By contrast, since I have retired I masturbate more than I did when I was in my 60's. in addition to frequency, sex has changed to a lot more shared masturbation.Sex

    3
    Of course I masturbate. I learned early in life that, contrary to my youthful misunderstanding, masturbation does not diminish because you are in a permanent sexual relationship nor is it a threat to it. Let's face it, I have been masturbating for more than 60 years, it is highly pleasurable and invigorating and it is sex at which I am highly experienced. Masturbation keeps me sexually active, it de-stresses, in makes me feel empowered and alive and has many health (physical and mental) benefits.For those reasons, it is very important and given how long it has been a part of my adult life I feel that if it were to diminish it would be a great loss to my self-esteem and health.For me,the enjoyment of prolonged touch and the eventual ejaculation as two distinct aspects of sex with myself. Masturbation varies with a number of things, mood,time available and how my body is feeling and reacting. Sometimes enjoying arousal and touch is more important than at other times when I am anxious to cum or do not have a lot of time. I aim to masturbate at least 3 times a week for prostate health but usually do so anything from 2 - 5 times if I can. No on my age masturbates as frequently and as prodigiously than in their youth but, as said, I masturbate more now than I did ten years ago and I think it is possibly more enjoyable, certainly orgasm is more intense.I am very pleased and grateful to be able to say that I always cum. Many years ago I did feel guilty, I come from that era. Certainly, I never let my first wife know I masturbated and she would not have approved but my wife now is far more grounded and open minded. I often use soft porn, largely amateur.. Yes my partner knows I masturbate and is cool with it, I consider myself very lucky.

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    Sadly, and inevitably, I do not get aroused as easily as I once did. I notice guys here claim a spectacular level of frequency and orgasmic potency which I am sure is untrue. Once started I always cum. Again, no on my age cums as vigorously or in as much volume as when they were younger but over the last few years orgasm has changed and intensified.Sadly I masturbate more than I have sex but I have no preference. Both are sex and fabulous.

    This has been a fun way to start posting on these forums.
     
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