Bi guy looking for friends in the community

Hi! I’m new to the site, and this is my first thread. I’m 33 years old and married to a woman for the last 7 years. A year ago I came out as bi to my wife and a couple of close female friends. Before coming out I never really had many close guys friends and my close female friends are all straight. I feel a little out my depth sometimes and basically am looking for men or women who are bi and would just want to chat about our experiences. Sexual or not. This isn’t a request for a friends with benefits or anything like that, just looking for more of a connection to the bi community

 

Welcome and feel free to message me - I'd be happy to chat with you about... stuff.

 

I've been Bi my whole life; you're certainly welcome to PM me any time you'd like to talk.

 

I’d be happy to chat with you

 

I am new here as well. I would like to chat with another male who has stepped out into that world. I am married but bi in secret. I have many questions and could use some support. I am in Connectocut

 

Welcome. Only advice I have is, jump in. Don't do what I did. I knew I was bisexual and wanted sex with men by age 18 but drove around like a scared kid for 10 years never acting on it while still going to ABS and cruisy parks trying to "figure myself out". You are where you are(in this case a bisexual forum full of bisexual men and new friends) not by chance. You brought you here, so you now know who/what you are. Don't run from it. Run TO it. Embrace it. Time is too precious to waste. i lost a good ten years. Go. Get you some.

Now, another point. I chose to be honest with my spouse before we got married that I'm bisexual, and enjoy sex with men, but have hardly acted on it. While honesty has worked for me, and we are still married, it has been a rough path, Most men would not recommend outing themself to their gf/wife. Me, there's no way I would have been able to live a lie or live with the guilt, and I truly felt that the woman I'm going to marry deserves to know my deepest honest sexual desires and exactly who/what she was getting. I told her I love her but there is no way I could ever promise or commit or be happy with sex with only one individual-any one individual, for the rest of my life.

Do your own soul searching, make your own intelligent choices, goodluck, and welcome.

 

You're welcome to PM me any time.

 

I am an older married guy 61, and I had a brief bi experience at an adult video arcade. I sucked on a few cocks and I was hooked. Not sure how to approach the subject with my wife. I know she would not entertain a 3way. I really want to duplicate the experience with someone that would actually be a friend hopefully a like married guy. Your thoughts

 

Hi,
I'd be happy to chat.

 

hi, welcome to the forums. feel free to tell us more about yourself

 

Usually at night. Where are you? I'm in new mexico

 

I'm in New Mexico too

 

Hi,
Thank you for the warmth welcome. Where and when can I share about myself?

 

Try proving her asking questions. Or scenarios like I know a guy who confessed to good wife.... And she reacted... Feel free to use your imagination here.

 

I have tried over the years to approach the desire to have a 3 way with another guy we have watched videos with the subject they get her excited but that is as far as it goes. So now it is in fates hands to find a guy, married that would be a friend with benefits.

 

anywhere. on this thread, the welcome thread. anywhere

 

It seems that you have two different goals. One being the threesome with your wife and another guy. That could be appealing to her because she would be having more attention (fun).
I have a few ideas on how to help her being interested.
On the other hand you want a friend with benefits, and you're already looking. I clearly see you're looking for discreet action, obviously you don't need or want another married man but a man who's discreet, so you can have some safe fun together.

 

I’m very interested in chatting with you

 

if you are available now tell me something about yourself

 

I love chatter!